But, who will take care of you when you're old?

nokidsforme, thanks for that information. Very useful and describes some people I know to a T.

sirfinbird, this may sound harsh, but your mother sounds like an emotional and physical vampire (as does nokidsforme's mother). Not worth the hassle.

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surfinbird
I'm so not stable enough to be taking care of my mother.

I wish I had someone to help me. I'm going to have a nervous breakdown.

You are simply not in a position to look after her, and your health is no less important than hers. Is there no-one at all who can help you?

Big hugs. X