Oh boo fucking hoo...
Welcome to the real world where people make judgements and assumptions based on your decisions, Sunshine, imagine if you had made a very public decision to be child free. To quote..
"I just would like to avoid being the object of unsolicited and usually uninformed adoption comments for a while. For some reason, EVERYONE has their own opinions about adoption and, despite the fact that most people in the general public are fairly ignorant concerning adoption issues, they still for some reason feel entitled to share their opinions with me"
Hmmm..replace the word "adoption" with "being child free" and we all probably have had the same experience 10 times over. I wonder how many times she's expressed her ignorant opinion to someone who said they didn't want children, ever.
" It's the same motivation that anyone has for having children. They just want to have a family."
Oh yeah, I forgot, only married, heterosexual people with children are a family. People without children, not a family.
"I am childless at this point and have no experience whatsoever with parenting."
Um, Do you have no parents of your own? Were you raised from birth in a cage, in a lab, with a wire mother? Have you never spoken with or observed parents? Maybe you should speak with some parents, about parenting, and maybe even work with children before you just succumb to your biological urges to be a parent, you thoughtless boob.
"No human gets a vote or the right to judge why or how I adopt except my husband, the adoption agency personnel, and the parent(s) who make an adoption plan for their baby who choose us to raise the child..." Actually, every human gets to judge you, because when you choose to raise a child, how you do that will impact many, many other humans beyond your family. It's what humans do, and if you're too sensitive to accept that, then maybe you shouldn't post your personal life on the internets, or go around playing the miscarriage martyr to everyone you interact with.
"It truly is the one commonality that every designation of humans you can think of has, there's at least one asshole."
--Me