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I was speaking to a very good friend the other day who stated that she didn't really have anyone to talk to about her feelings regarding her daughter going into daycare.
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Sometimes I completely forget this little vignet from my childhood!
So I wasn't ever really allowed to go over to anyone's house if they didn't live in a one block radius from my house. This was really bothersome to me as a child, even though I didn't realize my parents were stifling my social life until later. There had to be some big reason, like a school project or birthday party, I wasn't allowed to just go visit a friend.
I got annoyed at one point, and hit on a thought, if my mom had more friends to visit, she might understand!
So I asked her, "Where are all of your friends, mom?" And she replied, "Oh you and daddy and (sister) are enough for me." And I knew I'd been outmaneuvered into a corner. If SHE didn't see the need for friends, she'd never understand why I would want to visit MY friends.
I was literally bred to be companionship. And since I was a mistake, I was unintentional company too, and trust me, I picked up on that fact before I was ever informed of the oopsy nature of my existence. (Not really an oops baby, my parents just really didn't understand condoms.)
And you know what? I couldn't wait to get away from them! So much for "you'll be lonely in old age!" If you can't make friends you can't make your friends either.
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THIS is exactly what my mother also always said to me. She never understood why I need to go and see friends, because she has no other friends herself and said that we are enough for her.
Well, there was one friend who always called her, but my mother was always bored, because that particular friend would always ramble about her chyldren so much that even my mother would tire of listening to that shit over and over.
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