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evilchildlessbitch
I am a hundred percent for either the man or woman being able to get sterilized without spousal consent or notification. What I can't grasp is why any man or woman with a teeny amount of self respect would want a spouse or even a fuck buddy who cared more about them than an imaginary person. That seems like dysfunction all the way around.
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I am a hundred percent for either the man or woman being able to get sterilized without spousal consent or notification. What I can't grasp is why any man or woman with a teeny amount of self respect would want a spouse or even a fuck buddy who cared more about them than an imaginary person. That seems like dysfunction all the way around.
100% agree. There are, however, a few instances where such move may be a good way out. In some cases, 2 "CF" people get together and one changes their mind and now wants kids. In other cases, 2 wanna breeds get together and one of them changes their mind and no longer wants to breed. In any case, I think a CF person should have a right to be CF - promises or not - I think anybody who wants to be CF should be allowed to be CF. If sterilization is what is going to insure it, then I am all for it. This may sound mean and unethical, but I side with the CF under most circumstances
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evilchildlessbitch
I just don't see how they could want to remain in a relationship with a person who only wants to breed.
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I just don't see how they could want to remain in a relationship with a person who only wants to breed.
I am not able to explain that one. Best advice is to ditch the wanna breeder yesterday. I just look at a simpler side of things. If someone wants to be CF, they must be responsible for their own birth control, under all circumstances. If they must lie to be able to use their own birth control, then be it. Our society offers zero support for the CF people. When a TV show says it is OK to oops, all bets are off. TV shows like that are alarming and a wake up call to those who forgot what real world entails. Anything goes. Just my 2 cents.
I was thinking, what if some dude got up in the middle of that show and said that he is fixed and he is proud to be in control of his own body. I highly doubt that the breeder crowd would be clapping their hands.
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I find oppsing repulsive but I also find the reverse repulsive.
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This is appalling! So instead of talking about it like 2 adults, the wife is just going to make the decision and "oops" him? Fucking disgusting!
In terms of sterilization, I think both men and women should be in control of their bodies and not have to get a permission slip from the OH.
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I just don't see how they could want to remain in a relationship with a person who only wants to breed.
I am not able to explain that one. Best advice is to ditch the wanna breeder yesterday. I just look at a simpler side of things. If someone wants to be CF, they must be responsible for their own birth control, under all circumstances. If they must lie to be able to use their own birth control, then be it. Our society offers zero support for the CF people. When a TV show says it is OK to oops, all bets are off. TV shows like that are alarming and a wake up call to those who forgot what real world entails. Anything goes. Just my 2 cents.
I was thinking, what if some dude got up in the middle of that show and said that he is fixed and he is proud to be in control of his own body. I highly doubt that the breeder crowd would be clapping their hands.
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bell_flower
OMG I just watched the video and any woman who cheered that this person should oops her husband (including the host with her huge ass fake tits) needs to be boiled in oil immediately.
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The woman was all like, "he promised me we would have two kids." If it's that important to you, divorce him, but don't oops him.
You know if the situation were reversed and the woman had one and didn't want any more--suppose she had a difficult pregnancy--everyone would (rightfully so) be all over the man for wanting to force his wife to have another baby. Where is the outrage?
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CF person will not get support from pro-breeder surrounding and if fighting dirty is what it takes to stay CF, then I am all for it. This video is just an example of how our society thinks - it is OK to oops! Therefore, it is OK to "oops" and get snipped.
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Here is what can happen. A CF person grows up feeling that kids are not for them. CF person is constantly and continuously told that EVERYONE feels this way when they are young, but, EVERYONE changes and wants kids at some point. Well, we, here at Bratfree know that it is the biggest line of bullshit in its miserable existence. A CF person gets married and simply assumes that they too will change because EVERYONE says that they will. CF person later finds out that they do not want to change and they are simply not able to accept the idea of parenting to keep a relationship going. Yes, the marriage started out as a breeder marriage. Yes, it will likely come under fire and battles will have to be fought. But, I see no reason why CF person is at fault. They are a victim of a circumstance. Chances are, CF person wanted no harm for the wanna breeder. If the wanna breeder has wasted their time and possibly lost their fertility, I cannot say that I feel right about that. But at the same time, I really do not think that CF person is to blame here. We have ZERO education about CF. It is very likely that CF person had no idea they were CF and it is very likely that they simply did not look or research because they DID NOT KNOW to look. When all the stuff around us is all about bay-bees and breeding, what would give someone an idea to question that?
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I may sound off as biased in the CF favor and I very much am and I will not hide that. But I have my reasons.
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If a wanna breed relationship is compromised because one party no longer wants to breed, CF person is a villain. If a CF relationship is compromised because someone wants to breed, CF person is a villain. Somewhere, someplace, somehow, the scale needs to tip the other way or we will continue to get hell. We are not bad people and we should have the same rights that wanna breeders have.