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She also made comments about my recent health problems and said to OH he should be careful that I don't end up leeching off him,
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yummynotmummy
Starlady, we got together age 27. We're now 32. Our decision to stay CF was made around age 30, too.
I remember we talked about it and how we were both not keen on kids but figured we'd make a final decision when we were early 30s. I knew the drudgery of parenting from my ex, and was,already well aware of the restrictions on your life that come with brats.
OH, before he met me, didn't really think he'd have a choice. He figured he'd meet a woman, she'd want brats, and he'd just go along with it. I think a lot of men do think that way.
Re: MIL about-faces on the CF issue September 27, 2014 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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yummynotmummy
Well I'm afraid she is just going to have to accept that her beloved favourite boy doesn't want crotch droppings She can blame me ifshe likes, ain't gonna change a damn thing.
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She also made comments about my recent health problems and said to OH he should be careful that I don't end up leeching off him, pretty much. FFS our whole relationship I've been the higher earner, I supported us both when he was out of work for3 months and I paid off some of his debt so we could start saving for a new place. Christ alive if that's leeching....I am only.working part time at the moment as it's all I can manage and it's taking a lot out of me even to do that.
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hana
It really sucks when you thought you had supportive family, and they turn out to be breeders after all. Do yourself a huge favor and start distancing yourself from them right now, and sever all ties if possible. If OH wants to have a relationship with people who share his DNA, he can visit without you.
That was me until the golden cow got sperm poisoned, then it was non stop babby talk. I distanced myself, and moo said since I didn't want to hear babby talk, she would stop. That didn't last long, and when golden cow demanded I be a on call free nanny and meat based ATM, moo sided with the golden cow as always. I also think one of the reasons for the babby rabies is she's being bullied by the rest of the geriatric cows because of her lack of grandshits.
I haven't severed all ties yet because it would upset my grandmother, and she's the only person who supports my CFdom. She wishes CFdom was an option for her, but back then it was motherhood or the convent.
Sprogs seem to turn everyone into rude, nasty, entitled, psychos.
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I haven't severed all ties yet because it would upset my grandmother, and she's the only person who supports my CFdom. She wishes CFdom was an option for her, but back then it was motherhood or the convent.
Re: MIL about-faces on the CF issue September 28, 2014 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 1,227 |
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hana
It really sucks when you thought you had supportive family, and they turn out to be breeders after all. Do yourself a huge favor and start distancing yourself from them right now, and sever all ties if possible. If OH wants to have a relationship with people who share his DNA, he can visit without you.
That was me until the golden cow got sperm poisoned, then it was non stop babby talk. I distanced myself, and moo said since I didn't want to hear babby talk, she would stop. That didn't last long, and when golden cow demanded I be a on call free nanny and meat based ATM, moo sided with the golden cow as always. I also think one of the reasons for the babby rabies is she's being bullied by the rest of the geriatric cows because of her lack of grandshits.
I haven't severed all ties yet because it would upset my grandmother, and she's the only person who supports my CFdom. She wishes CFdom was an option for her, but back then it was motherhood or the convent.
Sprogs seem to turn everyone into rude, nasty, entitled, psychos.
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