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"No" is a complete sentence and this is where the LW is making a huge mistake. By justifying and asking for everyone else's opinion when she has already made up her mind, she gives off the air that this open for discussion. She needs to tell the ex that she has already answered this question but just to make it clear, she is saying no one more time to current and future requests for babysitting services. She needs to also tell him any future requests, conversations or guilt trips will result in her hanging up, and then actually do it. Put the responsibility back where it belongs, which is on the ex. She needs to have the same conversation with any other people who insist on discussing the issue.
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"No" is a complete sentence and this is where the LW is making a huge mistake. By justifying and asking for everyone else's opinion when she has already made up her mind, she gives off the air that this open for discussion. She needs to tell the ex that she has already answered this question but just to make it clear, she is saying no one more time to current and future requests for babysitting services. She needs to also tell him any future requests, conversations or guilt trips will result in her hanging up, and then actually do it. Put the responsibility back where it belongs, which is on the ex. She needs to have the same conversation with any other people who insist on discussing the issue.
I'd just add a few other words to 'no.'
Nanny. Find one. Like, yesterday.
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I'd just add a few other words to 'no.'
Nanny. Find one. Like, yesterday.
I wouldn't just because it opens up the conversation for the ex to whine that he can't afford a nanny or some other whine. I might add a few profanities before my no though.
Oh, I know. I"d just like to rub his nose in the fact that his lack of financial means does not constitute an emergency (or obligation) on my part. I mean, really rub it in.
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