I am so sorry for your loss. ((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))), and most especially sorry for the way that asshole was treating you in regards to the stupid "stork spot."
Keep your head up and please feel free to come here and vent anytime.
My father died young and unexpectedly, as well, so I know what it's like to receive that fateful phone call and race your ass, as fast as you can, to the hospital.