This is something I have posted about in the past! I have experienced this as most of us childfree-by-choice people have as well as those who are good parents. The first time I had to endure such a visit was when I was almost 17 years old. My mom had a former co-worker who had a house in Tahoe. We went during the school's "ski week" break.
The woman's out-of-wedlock two-year-old was HELL!!!! That was one spoiled brat! I would be bone-tired at about 10pm and wanted to go to bed...BUT...we had to sit around until Mom's friend could get the shitling to go to sleep "nicely" which never happened. By midnight or so, the moo's fiance (not the kid's father) would finally say he had it and the toadler was going to bed. Talk about one hell of a screaming fit for about an hour.
Mom is a good person but felt it was my "duty" to entertain the horrid creature due to being put up at her friend's place. I had to bratsit one night when my mother, her friend, and the fellow went out. Bratina DID go to bed at a reasonable hour. The woman's elderly dad lived there and thought it was great that
*I*, the babysitter, had the nerve to put the tiny despot to bed at a decent time. Yeah, she screamed but so fucking what! And...I DID accept the $10 (good $$$ in 1981) to watch the hellion even though my mom did not want me to accept.
I have also experienced such things as an adult which is why I am wary of childed people for friends. I am very solitary anyway so being a loner is cool by me.
Last time I experienced such an awful thing was in the mall with a friend who has one kid by a deadbeat from her high school years. The woman was married to Husband #2 at the time and made good $$$ so the bratling got very used to the good life even though her mom had many dirt-poor years.
The three of us met for lunch that day. My friend did not have enough cash to get the nasty seven-year-old a "Build-A-Bear" stuffed animal. Friend told Daughter that the treat would be on hold until the next payday. The kid started crying and being a real cunt in the mall. Mother did get on her case but not enough. The horrible thing just had this huge-ass birthday shindig where she got a bike.
Before the B-Day for Princess, my friend got her a guinea pig but got rid of it when the bitch-in-training screamed and threw tantrums when she was told to clean the cage. Karma got the little bint's fucking ass because her mother is now divorced from the latest husband and has not fared well this past year. The gravy train of kiddie crap has come to an end as the lady lost a good job, got it back, quit, and is now living with a low-life who refuses to work in South Florida.
"FUCK WORK"