anoon Wrote:
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like a poster of long ago Brats
> days, coming back and whining about how he has
> been "oopsed", but by Golly Gee, he is going to
> make the best of the situation, and then have all
> the posters (mostly female, gee, go figure)
> clamouring around him with oh you poor guy!
> Tricked by such an evil bitch! Seen it done
> before. SPineless men I hate just as much as
> doormat martyr women.
I was one of those mostly female posters on Brats who clamored around that guy and tried to comfort him. Personally, I can't see the point of berating and blaming someone who already feels like crap and realizes they've made a mistake. Years in 12-step groups have taught me some compassion.
I can understand why you yourself would rather be alone than "settle", but I don't get why people like Ranter #696 have to be so judgmental and nasty. What's the point? What does it accomplish?