breederific mother

Good for you, guest. It burns me up that people put up with shit from their family members that they would not put up with if that crap were coming from a stranger or even a friend. Just because she is your mom doesn't give her any right to emotionally blackmail and abuse you. And you don't have to take it.

Where the hell was she, when you went through breast cancer, for chrissakes? We all know: worshipping your sister's Almighty Baybees.

Ranter, big hugs and good wishes to you and your DH! After all you've been through, you deserve a nice vacation! Sorry your mom is being so unfair to you.

Fellow CFer, be strong and stand your ground. You have been through hell and back. Your mom, compared to everything you've been through, is a minor annoyance, kinda like a gnat. Sending lots of good wishes your way!