its because you jappy, and learning are the exceptions.
i have to say as a man, more men are feeling the same things that ame said, its worse if its a breeder, look at the adverts, buy her a diamond, buy her this, buy her that, or she needs she wants..
its different if a man offers without thought of recompense. but it is a form of bartering in todays world. its wrong, but thats what a lot of men see.
these women (unlike you jappy and learning and a few others), only see a man as a walking wallet, thats the only reason they are there, theres been many studies that women go for the more "successful" men, look at trump, they are only with him for his money, look at other wealthier men, with young women.
you have to ask, why are they with them, if there wasnt an extra benefit. this was claimed of anna nicole and her billionaire, it may have been love, it may have been prostitution (gaining money, items for sex).
as i keep saying there are always exceptions to every situation. but a lot of the men i know only see women of a certain type, see them as being less than a prostitute. prostitutes only sell their body, mothers to be sell their uterus.
i know several money grabbing, women, who use the potential of sex to gain rewards. they flirt, they bat their eyelashes, and they are not adverse to using their children, and follow all this with, "i will be everso grateful" nudge nudge wink wink.
these are the type of women that are far less than a prostitute. and these are the ones that are destroying the male-female dynamic.
i say to everyone, have a joint account for bills, but have your own bank account as well, for some women i know will take all a mans money from their joint accounts, and leave him broke.
there are always exceptions, and jappy, ame,learning are the exceptions plus there are others, but its hard to stop seeing the good as being bad if all you hear are the bad.
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