on thebritgirl.com website, she has posted a comment about what makes us childfree, is the child of an ex partner, mean the man isnt childfree even if he was tricked into it. what about a woman who puts the child up for adoption, if they dont beleive in abortion or they are pressured into having it or dont have the money for one. (does beleiving and having an abortion the key part of being childfree ). i think its subjective, and upto the individual, they and only they can say if they are or arent childfree. i dont know. but how do we determine childfree, mental stance is that the key.
this is my reply.**
a childless can become a childfree, but can a childfree become a childless.. possibly?
one refers to either a medical conditon or something else, the other refers to a concious choice.
if you are with your new partner, and he had a child from a previous marriage, and you are married, and he doesnt want anymore children, the partner could be childfree, because no children will belong to THEM. as a couple. they could be termed a childfree couple, but only as a group.
(i know a couple of women who are in that situation, and she is very childfree, and he doesnt want kids i think he was pressured into having them and the previous relationship broke down) so is he part of the childfree world, or is he not part of it. this is a very gray, very personal area.
i would say childless people generally have a need for something else in their lives, and due to situations that isnt possible. childfree we understand that children are not the solution to future problems, they are the cause.
less or free is determined by strength of feeling, is a woman who puts her child up for adoption, is she childfree, she is free of the child, but has a child she may never see.. does that count..
it depends on personal situation, how far you take the childfree stance. and only a person can say whether they are cf or cl..
childless and childfree are 2 groups, but within that group there are infinite veriations, which i think is the best thing to have.
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