That seems to be the trend today: bleached out hair, trashy clothes, overdone make up - all before they are even in high school.
Up until the day I moved out of my parents' house, my mother was constantly on me about what I was wearing and how I looked, and I dressed pretty conservatively!
Things change, and NOT for the better. Today's mawms want to be their daughters' best friends, not their parent. Some of the trashy mothers look just as bad as the daughters.