Hey Y'all! It's been a while, but I've got to vent on this one.
My fiancee and I are getting married in October and have been engaged since June of last year. That being said, since we are focused on the MARRIAGE and not just the wedding, which is a grand total of 1 day of our lives and we two are paying for this sucker and we're trying to keep it relatively simple and low-key (it's in a pumpkin patch at my church and we're having a BBQ afterward), we've been trying to economize and make the whole thing heartfelt, not fancy-schmancy--e.g., one of my Navy buddies married a pastry chef and he's doing the cake, one of my friends from church is doing the flowers, we snagged the bridesmaid dresses on sale at Macy's and Dillard's and I paid for them since I knew the 3 bridesmaids would have to pay for hotel and airfare--you get the picture. We also want to have people there who we really love and know well to be there and have a great time with us.
Anyhow, since I'm active duty here in the DC area, I blocked about 50 rooms at the Navy Lodge up here in DC at a rate of $77/night, which is a nice place (kind of like a Holiday Inn) and CHEAP for here!
The going rate for most hotels is around $200/night out-the-door.
This morning I noticed that AirTran had finally released seats for the weekend of 10 OCT (when we're getting married) and I wanted to provide my family with a quick heads-up so that they could get their tickets if they wanted, since just about everyone is in Atlanta.
WOULDN'T YOU KNOW, the one person who pitched a whiny-butt hissy fit is my cousin who is a single mom (long story on that one--short version = there's a drug store on every corner but she and he must've forgotten something after a few drinks + she decided not to abort = one little girl who is very sweet, but unfortunately whose mother does NOT want to be a mother and still wants to be a party girl, manicures, butt crack tattoo and all.) I haven't responded to her ranting yet (see below e-mail for details), but it kinda frosts me that:
1. This past Christmas I asked her if her daughter could be a flower girl, since I know that her daughter likes pretty princess stuff and I wanted to buy her a pretty flower girl dress so that she could use it for a first communion dress the next year.
2. I gave my whole family (including my cousin) a heads-up on this whole thing back in September, when we set the date.
3. My mom (who by the way uses a wheelchair) and I hauled up to Detroit in November 1997 for her wedding (and about froze our tails off there) which didn't even last 2 years and cost both my mom and I a plane ticket each, rental car, and 3 night hotel stay at the Marriott (no block rate there at that time--we were on our own!). Not to mention the fact that at that time, it was before I'd joined the Navy, had been working as a temp RD in a hospital in Hot Springs, Arkansas, and had a student loan and car loan to boot.
4. Don't even get me started on the part about her having to board her dog. I used to have two dogs, they lived good and relatively healthy lives and I miss them terribly! Having a dog and taking good care of it means that it costs money, dammit!
I haven't responded to her e-mail, but figure that if she's able to make it, great, but if not, okay then. I just don't have time for her whiny attitude! Not to mention the fact that I had to have a repeat mammogram this morning and up until 9AM when I got the results, I was concerned about what the radiologist was going to tell me. Fortunately, the results were normal (YAY!). The radiologist just needed 2 more shots to make sure. Still kind of unnerving though.
Thanks for listening!
E-mail (original & response) below:
RESPONSE FROM MY COUSIN:
Hi Kathy
There is no way on this earth that I can afford to pay $666.00 for the two tickets for me and Cate to come to DC. I am going to wait to book airfare to see if it goes down. I am going to have to find a place to board the dog which will be about $200.00 and then the cost of the room which will be and additional $200 so I am going to take a bit of time before I rush into booking the room. So far this will be costing me about $1100 for the weekend and that does not include food, car rental etc so I definitely have to wait and see if the airfare goes down.
I will keep you posted on my progress. I check prices a couple of times each week.
TTYL
Lisa
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From: Kat
Hello Family!
2 things really quick:
Air Tran has opened up their seats for the weekend of 10-13 OCT.
If you get the cheap seats (now $156 one-way), the out-the-door cost for the ticket is $333.
I checked DELTA for that same weekend and the same airport (DCA = Ronald Reagan Airport) and it's the same out-the-door cost of $333.
If you have booked your room with the Navy Lodge, please call me either tomorrow night (30 JAN 08) or Thursday night (31 JAN 08) after 8:30PM but before 9:30PM. I need to obtain some information from you for the base access list, otherwise you won't be able to get on the base.
Thanks and talk with y'all soon!
Love,
Kat