mercurior Wrote:
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> for me strippers dont do anything. perhaps i was
> brought up differently, perhaps i see the
> desperation in some of these womens lives.
Many women who go into the biz are desperate. Usually, they are single mothers in total desperation.
>
> but i do say that if a woman wants to, and wants
> to show off her body to men, she should be able
> too. so long as it is her choice. I always prefer
> reality, than some " real" fantasy.
I think a lot of guys believe the "fantasy" of how sexy the girls are only to find they have their own issues like anyone else. Then...many of the fellows get jealous at what the strippers must do to earn that money.
>
> some men only see the image rather than the
> reality, and sometimes these women pander to that.
> But you see this a lot in the press, stripper
> wear, the idea that there is a saviour, pretty
> woman style.
I hated the "Pretty Woman" movie. Most of the men who date strippers are not in a position to rescue anyone. It is more the "image" that attracts them.