Sorry, I think the two-faced side of TMC should be exploited to our benefit. We get the occasional troll, and I suppose, we could go there enmasse and troll them as well, pointing out the obvious hypocrisy. Of course the ensuing flame war would probably get us booted (which proves the point of that they are two-faced..).
Go to tmc_snark on live journal and you can snark some of the tmc & tdc comments. If you go that route, be a tad careful though: while we can spew all sorts of comments here, they aren't as tolerant there about it, even on that particular snark page. (see my post 'reading between the lines'.)
A) it is true mom confessions and as the name implies, this strikes me as all inclusive, the good, the bad, the really ugly, and the really stupid and hypo-critical.
b) I find it quite educational to see the train-wrecks amidst these breeders. I don't bother to read comments posted on the main thought. Trust me, the goody two-shoe moos that post 'i'm so happy with snotleigh' will be totally vicious to this depressed moo. It does not enter their conscious stream of thought that someone was duped into the breeding script, or falsely believed it and is now paying the price. "How can you not be happpyy with shitleigh?" and all the other putrid nonsense they spout. That study that was done proved that: if you don't know anything else (other than sprogging), of course that is joyful. (Since all these wannabe breeders are geared for just that: sprogging.)
However, the real issue is whether or not they are allowed to continue: I have to vote, let them continue. After all, it is a breeder site and such stupidity, cupidity, snobbery, etc is to be expected from them...their brains did go out with the afterbirth.
p.s.: as an example, Donahue, a loooooong time ago, had a mother on that had walked out on her two kids because she felt she was at the point she was going to do serious harm to them. rather than do that, she left.. Of course, some farking moo called in to berate her, point up her two darling little girls and how could any mother harm kiddies... (blech) Proof to the point that these moos cannot (mostly) think outside their own moo-dom to realize someone else should not have sprogged. They only go on as it relates to their own perfect mommyhood and their darling brats. (I would be willing to bet, if I could have tracked that donahue call in moo, her friends and acquantances would most likely have thought her two little angels as annoying little bratty, out of control bastards.)
P.P.S: Someone in the flame-war that erupted when I posted the comments in the mental health news categorized my comments as hate-speech and I should be elfed because of them. No one likes the truth.