In spite of the fact that most children who are abused, are abused by the people who brought them into this world, or relations/partners of said people? In spite of the fact that people who do not have children they don't want are able to devote their time making the world a better place for ALL, your rotten kids included?
Feel free to read the below story, which I got from thebritgirl.com
Norma (19:27:30) :
I never wanted children, never gushed over babies as some women (and men) do wanting to hold them and cooing at them. I don’t mind children, but other people’s and in small doses! After 13 years of marriage I became pregnant, an accident, I was terrified my husband was extatic. I plucked up the courage to voice my fears to people, but all I got was “you’ll be fine once you’ve had it” Well I did have him in 1989 I felt nothing, I stared down into his cot whilst in hospital willing this love to come with tears flooding down my face, it didn’t. Once I got home things got much worse I became very depressed and felt so guilty, I was convinced there was something missing in me or that I was evil. My husband in contrast was over the moon andyou could see the love for his son in his eyes. I ended up going back into hospital with postnatal depression, whilst I was in there my huband divorced me. I believe he thought I would harm the baby as I did not love it, could not bond with it and, if I’m honest, felt very resentful towards it at the time (even though I knew deep down it was not the child’s fault) I felt such a failure and my mother’s words: ” there must be something wrong with you if you don’t love your own flesh and blood” rang in my ears for years.
My son is 19 now, he has always lived with his dad but I have always seen him on a regular basis. We get on well and I like him, but to this day I do not love him as I feel a mother should. I have never told him of my lack of love now, and never would.
All I can say is, if you don’t want children then don’t let anyone or anything make you have them, because you may not be “alright when you’ve had it” love doesn’t automatically come after you have given birth, if ever, and you’ll just be setting yourself up for years of heartache, regret and, the worst of all, guilt.
"It truly is the one commonality that every designation of humans you can think of has, there's at least one asshole."
--Me