I am sorry to hear you are having trouble with relationships when the woman changes her mind re: kids. It has to be difficult to get involved and come to care about someone only to get a 'bait-&-switch' when it comes to those babies. A lot of times men AND women will say one thing to get a person to commit to them only to turn around and give unreasonable demands or the relationship will end. CF Boston, this is not easy but at least it was a break-up rather than the woman "oopsing" you, which would have been a forever deal. I hope this makes you feel a little better. About how to find childfree people, there are online sites if you are OK with that....