I got a real kick out of her yesterday (july 2) ream out a stupid moo with 3 sprogs for her responsibility for contributing to the mess she was in.
I know folk here will be unsympathetic, so am I (because ultimately the kids themselves are the losers).
She married while still in college. The guy went (and graduated) from dental school, accruing 200,000 in debt. She KNEW this guy helped his (mind you 'his') family out financially constantly. It wasn't frivoulous help, generally went towards medical stuff and repair. (However, this guy obviously hasn't made the switch that he has a family now to take care of.. the point was, this bimbo saw this and still went ahead with the marriage... rabid for the white dress.)
In the middle of this, and I tend to think it started when they were in college (her words "I didnt' want to be old when I had my kids") she grinds out 3 loafs. She says it was mutual (she lacked the balls to tell him 'not while we are financially unstable, when you keep financially supporting 'your' family while we drive a falling apart van.. ' and don't forget she wanted the loafs before she was 'old') decision.
Of course, he continues to financially spend on HIS family and she's bitching about it. She would not face the fact that she contributed to this debacle. Not once, but 3 times. Sprogging when you can't afford it.
Brains went out with the afterbirth.