Oh waaaaaaaaaah waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah.
I have empathy for all kinds of situations. I do NOT have empathy for sick bitches like yourself that create your own drama and wallow in it.
Sometimes, people just can't have a kid. Used to be that this would be accepted and folks went on with their lives, finding constructive things to do. Nowadays though, apparently every woman that can figure out how to spread her legs is entitled to have a child. What, the usual method didn't work? Go see a doc, he'll give you pills, shots, IVF, donor sperm, donor eggs, whatever it takes.. but you will have your Almighty Child.
So long as you can afford it. Oh wait, that's right, some costs get to be passed off to the insurance companies, and damn whoever's care suffers because of it.
Now.. any woman who goes through NINE cycles of IVF is a sick little drama queen who is obsessed with the attention she's getting and generally focusing on her own great tragedy to the exclusion of many more important things. She's made this clump of cells her number one goal, which is incredibly unhealthy mentally and emotionally. She knows it, but she does it anyway. Why? Because she feeds off the drama like a soap opera addict.
It is revolting to consider, but like a trainwreck, you just can't look away.
And being shitty to the people that are trying to see you through your escapades.. well yes, that does make you a hateful, negative bitch.
Just don't confuse hateful negativity with having the guts to tell it like it is.