Reading more of your brother, Nour, there are a lot of guys who claim to want a smart woman but will see the dumb ones behind a good one's back. As for the current girlfriend claiming she cannot have nor wants more kids, I still say, "Get the vasectomy!" How many women get knocked up after claiming how they do not think they can get pregnant? Again, Florida is horrid when it comes to brat support. I used to work with a guy who had to keep the kid on his health insurance. The ex-wife always made sure to work part-time or not at all so she could keep the boy on her husband's policy. I agree, KFLL, the child support gig is a huge scan in the USA so slaggy women can get a free meal ticket for almost two decades. It has to end. Betcha there would be less births if the child support was actually reasonable (say...$200 rather - or none at all if nefarious dealings could be shown as proof - than $1200 for each child as one guy I know pays in New Hampshire) rather than it being a freaking windfall.