Moomie asks, "What's normal sexual behavior for a 6 y/o boy?"

"What's normal sexual behavior?



Wee son exhibits what his psyche (and I) beleive are probably hyper-sexual behaviors. He noticed pretty girls way too young, talked about hips and eyes. He continues to grab at attractive women now, at age 6.
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He hasn't made the "connection" yet, at least not consciously, but he is erect a lot of the time. He runs around grabbing himself - hard - most of the time. We are constantly telling him to keep his hands out of his pants, but that is getting worse instead of better.
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This morning, he grabbed himself and aimed himself at us, while thrusting his hips and making very loud "woooweee" sounds. Altho he has always done this occassionally, despite our best efforts to make it stop, this is becoming a daily activity.
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He started this cr@p when he was around 3, commenting on girls and their hair and hips and how they walked. They said he would "outgrow" it then. Obviously, he has not, and now people are starting to take notice. And at this point, I don't know what's normal and what's not.
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So what's normal?"


Gee, I dunno. I know what's NOT normal and that's a six year old boy with a walking erection grabbing at himself, making sexual comments, and groping at grown women. I have always wondered what serial rapists were like when they were growing up, now I know. He needs to be locked away in a nuthouse NOW before he rapes a classmate. This bad seed is a sex crime waiting to happen. Maybe he can discover that "cure for cancer" while he's away at the nuthouse.

Yes, he'll have plenty of time to study in there. Egads. What a horror. And no discipline going on, naturally. I do wonder if this is a stepkid pingponging between two houses...and what's going on at the other house to produce this behavior.

If he grabbed at me, he could get a headstart on that cancer cure by chatting up the doctors from his hospital bed.

What the hell are they letting this boy watch? Pornos? Are these idiots fucking in front of him? I cannot put anything past today's breeders.

I have heard that little children who exhibit hyper-sexual behaviors often do so because they are being sexually abused. Makes you wonder if there's a little lying by omission going on...

Yep, I agree, Cambion. Sexual abuse immediately came to mind when I read this post.

Cambion Wrote:
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> I have heard that little children who exhibit
> hyper-sexual behaviors often do so because they
> are being sexually abused. Makes you wonder if
> there's a little lying by omission going on...


I thought that at first, until I noticed she said, the "PSYCHE" agrees with her, so that means he is seeing a psychiatrist. They are required by law to report any sexual abuse in kids which leads me to believe there isn't any in this case. Then she said the behavior started when he was three. Like I said, I think the boy is a BORN psychopath/sociopath. If he is acting this way now; groping at grown women, keeping his hands down his pants, holding his penis in inappriate ways and "pointing it" at his family, he has a major mental problem, NOT adhd, ODD, etc.....

I am wondering if they do this co-sleeping, extended breastfeeding shit, but it didn't say. This kid is a future sex offender and it will be THEIR fault when someone is assaulted. The only reason he probaby hasn't assaulted anyone yet is he hasn't had the opportunity.

Cambion Wrote:
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> I have heard that little children who exhibit
> hyper-sexual behaviors often do so because they
> are being sexually abused. Makes you wonder if
> there's a little lying by omission going on...

Mommie needs to get some help for the brat and everyone in the household. I also think she's leaving something out.

This is nothing short of horrifying.

If this kid is behaving this way at age six I have to believe that he is already beyond hope. Sorry, but kids are intolerable enough for me as it is...when they behave like this, or show violent behavior this young I immediately think "future serial killer." I doubt very much that a child like this will ever be a decent, normal human being.

This kid needs to be locked away and forgotten about.

Peppertree Wrote:
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> > This kid needs to be locked away and forgotten
> about.

CHEMICAL CASTRATION

Probably some really "touchy-feely" breastfeeding by the moo. Late night, while everyone's asleep........ alone in the kid's room........

you get the picture..........

Because remember, it's different when it's your own.........

KidFreeLuvnLife Wrote:
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> Probably some really "touchy-feely" breastfeeding
> by the moo. Late night, while everyone's
> asleep........ alone in the kid's room........
>
> you get the picture..........
>
> Because remember, it's different when it's your
> own.........

Careful, darling.....there might be mommies here........

Society, meet a future Rapey The Clown and good luck with that.

"It truly is the one commonality that every designation of humans you can think of has, there's at least one asshole."
--Me

Yeah, this kid is way fucked up and needs to be dealt with--NOW! This is not, not, NOT normal behaviour for a six-year-old! He is probably being sexually abused as I don't think this behaviour just shows up out of a vacuum. I would wonder if, given that girls seem to be starting their periods earlier and earlier these days, if hormones might be implicated, but if so there should be a much higher incidence of this sort of thing.

I don't think Moo is telling the whole story, either.

I couldn't help but notice she said, "People are starting to take notice". NO SHIT. I have been around PLENTY of bratty little boys in my life of all ages. NEVER though have I ever seen a boy of ANY age walk around with an erection and "point it" at people. The hands down the pants thing I have seen, but they appear ashamed of it when scolded, and they STOP doing it. NORMAL boys try and hide their sexuality, NOT flaunt it. Even then, they are 10,11 + years old NOT 6.

Surely to God no public school will allow this kid in the classroom. It wouldn't surprise me in the least if he attempted sexual assault on the damned playground. He needs to be checked into a nuthouse and studied for a long period of time to get at the root of his problems. If this shit goes unchecked, it's obvious to anyone with half a brain of what this kid will become. SOMEONE some day will be brutally attacked by this child but the parents will probably say, "He was such a good boy, I don't know HOW this happened".

This re-enforces what I have always thought; Parents of serial rapists and serial killers HAD to know something as that child grew up. Yet, they feign innocence and shock as scores of victims testify against their adult kid. I honestly think that in the vast majority of the cases, that the offenders need to go to a nuthouse for life and studied, and their parents need to be tried as co-conspirators or at the very least, obstruction of justice, and sentenced to prison.

Maybe if the parents were held responsible, they'd take action before it was too late for an innocent victim.

If that kid ever points his shit at me, I swear I'll smack that thing so hard it'll be 'til he's eighteen before he gets another hard-on...eww, kids are just so GROSS

I wonder how long they indulged this behavior,brushing it off as "cuuute" because he was 3,4,etc.?

That kid is a rape waiting to happen.

I didn't even know boys that young could get erections! Feel free to enlighten me if I'm incorrect, but I thought boys couldn't get erections until puberty.

kidlesskim Wrote:
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> "This morning, he grabbed himself and aimed himself
> at us, while thrusting his hips and making very
> loud "woooweee" sounds."

Me thinks someone (the babydaddy?) has been exposing that little perv to porn. It's the only explanation I can think of - he's copying what he's seen.

Either way: NOT NORMAL! Jeebus.

Cambion is right, I missed the bit about the "psyche" being involved and of course they're bound by law to report abuse.

But I also agree with Rose Red: "I also think she's leaving something out." Yep. There's a big, gaping hole of mystery in this story. Something's being done to this kid (I think) that we're not hearing.

Probably because the kid is still sleeping with Mommy and sucking on her tits, too.

While Duh is banished to the other room to boot.

Very Freudian.

And then you have idiot parents such as this father, as a poster described last year on a private forum:

...I remembered one especially stupid wretch who called me one night, claiming he was victim of a false sex abuse charge. Those calls tended to make me feel a bit sick, because there isn't much you can tell a man facing a false sex abuse charge, except to take it serious and that he is fighting for his life.

But, then he explained. He had a young son, by memory only older than a toddler but not much.

He had explained to his little son the way to become a man was to learn how to grow a Big Hard-on. Seriously!

He encouraged his son to run around the house with a big hard-on, and boast about it. "Look at my hard-on, daddy!"

"You are doing fine, son, keep it up and you will soon be a man."

And, once in a while, he would reach out and gently tap the end of the Big Hard-on to let him know how proud he was of that big hard-on.

His wife filed for divorce, and filed sex abuse charges. His attorney told him if he would agree to give up all parental visitation rights, the charges would be dropped. I told him I suspected he was going to prison, there wasn't much of a way to defend himself, that he had better accept the agreement.

He told me he was innocent, and by damn, he was going to fight for his parental rights. I am guessing he went to prison, yet in his own mind he was innocent of any wrong doing. ...

I think in a [different situation], we [guys] would invite him out behind the barn to see The Statue Of The Beautiful Naked Lady. There would be screams (his) and thumps (ours) and then we would tell him, "Oops, sorry, I guess you can't see the Naked Lady, your eyes are all swollen shut. Listen up, turd. A father does not teach his son to run around naked showing a big hard-on. Nor does he touch his son's private parts, except for necessary hygiene or medical reasons. Nor does a father obtain a prostitute for his son's education. Nor anything else similar. If you are unsure what is correct, better ask one of us, because this was only Phase One, you have no broken bones, but if we have to do this again, Phase two gets really nasty."

No jail. No sex offender registration. Just simple attitude adjustment.

I knew a kid like this. He was 9 years old and as his 4th grade teacher I had to meet with his probation officer once a month. His mom, whom I met once, was a raging alcoholic. There was no dad in the picture, just an endless succession of boyfriends. He had been removed from the home and placed in several foster care homes. No one could handle him. He had been molested several times, both by his mother and some of the boyfriends. He had seen countless porno movies and talked about them frequently to other students at school. He also molested a boy in the school bathroom, and laid on top of a boy on the playground, dry humping him and frocing his tongue in his mouth. FINALLY, after months of trying to get him out of our school, he was sent to a school for children with behavioral disorders. I had never been so glad to see a child go. I know one day I will read about him in the news. He is sure to be the next Jeffrey Dahmer.

This kid posted about sounds like he is well on the same path. There is no way he hasn't been messed with, unless he has some strange hormonal disorder. I say cut it off. Even though the kid I had to teach had been abused, and I should have felt sorry for him, he was so far gone he was scary. Cut it off!

Has anyone noticed that the vast majority of the "co-sleeper" and extended breastfeeding kids with behavioral problems are boys? With the exception of possibly some rare cases, little boys do not have some surge of testosterone until they reach puberty. I realize that many children have sexual thoughts and desires at a very young age, but they are also aware by the age of 4 or 5, that acting out on their thoughts is socially unnacceptable and they refrain from doing this shit. It also seems that moomies do this "toss duhddy out of bed" shit, or sleep with their sons in their rooms moreso than girls.

I think that the vast majority of these boys' sexual acting out and inappropraite sexual behavior, when OTHER abuse is ruled out, is because they are laying in bed with moomie and/or duhddy and while they may think the kid is unaware, he is probably taking sneak peeks under the covers when they "go at it". In addition, he spends the greater part of the day on his mother's tit. Combine all of that with natural sexual thoughts and you have a real mixed up kid.

He is getting mixed messages. It's BAD to hold my hard on in public, but OKAY (even fun!) when daddy sticks it in moomie. It's BAD to grab at women's breasts, but OKAY to stay latched onto moomie's. This whole thing of exposing little boys to moomie's tits at all hours of the day and night (just to suck if he wants), and watching moomie and duh have sex which undoubtedly involves duhddy doing some suckling of his own, and then being isolated from "normal" people and free from peer pressure, is BOUND to cause sexual and behavioral problems, as evidenced by their own words.

Why can't they SEE this for what it is, PUT the little bastard in his own bed, and teach him to eat FOOD, like a normal person? This is child abuse and they are getting away with it because it's a "parenting style". Even when their pediatricians tell them to PUT THE 49 MONTH OLD IN HIS OWN BED, they get defensive and say, "It's none of his business", or it's a "parenting style, not a medical issue". Many of their little rants involve the doctors telling them to STOP this shit. Most of them don't even tell the docs when they are suckling 5 year olds or so-sleeping with their elementary school kids.

Gee, I wonder why? Is Dr. "attachment parenting" Sears the ONLY perv doc who is telling them this shit is ok? He looks like a perv anyway, why are they listening to this ONE doctor, when there are thousands who say, "PUT THE TIT DOWN"".?

Ironically, the stupid cow, who knows just enough pop-psychology to be dangerous with it, won't want to punish the scary kid over his totally inappropriate sexual behaviour.... FOR FEAR THAT HE MIGHT TURN OUT TO BE A SEX-WIERDO.

So all this slinging his penis around, humping furniture and public masturbation is only going to be 'seriously discussed' in the patrician environs of a psychologist's study -- when what the kid really needs is a damn good ass-kicking every time he starts acting like a freakin' Bonobo.

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