I applaud J. Metz for having the courage to say what he feels. In this pro-parenting climate, it's hard sometimes to find the guts to be able to say things like that; because you'll most likely be ridiculed by many. Not only did he say what was on his mind, but he did it in a professional, courteous manner that refelects a better light on CF'ers (since some choose to believe we are a selfish, immoral, and mean sect of people). Good for him.