kidlesskim, thank you so much for sharing so much from that kellymom site. It's trainwreck central, and I'm having a smug, childfree ball! Here's a grab bag of thread-starting posts that make me want to hurl.
1. "My sister is due in December and we're super close. I told her she should ask her MIL how her DH slept as a baby since my DD is just like my DH - aka not a sleeper!!!!!!!! So she did and found out that her DH was a terrible sleeper too and they did co-sleeping with him and he would come into bed with them up until he was 10!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So - now she's already decided that she's going to co-sleep especially since she will be breastfeeding and she heard that newborns feed every 2 hrs. Yeah - another convert in my family - now if I could just get my mom to realize it's the better way instead of CIO (which she just let my nephew do the other day at their house while she was babysitting, even though my other sister doesn't do CIO either! )"
2. "Not sure if this post goes here or in the "health" section. I've been co-sleeping with my DD. She is crawling and rolls alot, so to be sure she doesnt roll off the bed she sleeps in the crook of my arm with her head on my arm....this also allows for the best position for her to latch on at night. However, I think it is causing nerve damage in my arms! Use to, my arms would go to sleep at night and tingle really bad. Now they dont go to sleep at night, but every day they ache and hurt and I get a weird tingly, goose-bump like sensation up and down my arms all day. It really scared me at first....a tingling, aching left arm....I thought I might be about to have a heart attack. But I feel fine otherwise so I'm pretty sure it is related to DD sleeping on my arms all night. Anyone else have this problem? How do I fix it? Better sleep position ideas? She is almost 8 months if that helps, and a big baby. Anyone else have this problem? Should I maybe see a doctor about it?"
3. "Took ds for 4 yr old physical and shots. Dr. asked if he sleeps in his own bed (along with other things that were none of her business) and I said no. She proceeded to tell ds that he needed to be sleeping in his own bed and then lectured me on it! Her final statement, "Healthy families sleep in separate rooms." This was only one of the many things that made me mad but I won't go into anymore. What business is it of hers?! Has anyone ever dealt with this kind of thing with a dr. before?"
4. "This is a tough one for our family. Brayden has slept with us from day one. We never even tried his crib. DH has always been OK with this. In fact the one night we were going to have him sleep in his basinet DH went and got him and said it just didn't feel right
So our problem now is that Brayden is getting older and bigger and moving and hogging the bed! He is still nursing at least twice a night too. It seems when DH comes to bed at night (around 12) Brayden will wake up and want to play and sometimes its hard to get him back to sleep. For the past two nights DH has slept on the couch and B hasn't woke up at all and only ate once!!! WOW! So DH and I were kinda thinking of taking down his crib and putting a bed in his room. Would that be weird? I mean if we don't care it should be no big deal right? DH says he promises he really doesn't care and he knows B needs me right now.
I know if we take down the crib and put a bed in there my mom will freak out (oh and I am 28 by the way) but she still thinks she needs to tell me what to do.
Anyways, do you think it would be a bad thing?"
_____________________
The thread title for #4 is "Do we kick DH out of our bed?" The link (unclickable so that hipmoos won't come here in buttermilk-scented droves!) is forum.kellymom.net/showthread.php?t=85566 if you're interested in more trainwreck.