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exile
I do belive the ones that feel their not whole till they breed do tend to ruin their chances, one of my old friends was desperate to breed before she turned 30, less than two years ago she hired a match-maker then apparently started dating a guy, found out she was 5months pregnant barely a year later, got married the month after age 30, had a premature baby two weeks ago by age 31, I only found out all this with a random text after the kid was born two weeks ago, I was stunned. I've been with my partner less than two years, and couldn't imagen being married and pregnant to him after such a short time, *not that I would aloue the pregnancy part*
Re: Am I insensitive because I find this pitiful? (woman commits suicide because she isn't wed and bred by age 30) February 15, 2015 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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Keeper of Traken
Last year I went to visit her and we got to talking about marriage and kids and she briefly spouted off the whole biological clock bullshit spiel...
Re: Am I insensitive because I find this pitiful? (woman commits suicide because she isn't wed and bred by age 30) February 15, 2015 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 201 |
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Techie
Hmm, looking at the name of BF, it sounds a touch Eastern European to me. If that is the case, it then explains a touch better what took place here. Women definitely have the "expired by the age of 30" stamped on their foreheads in some of those places. Maybe some of that was brought to UK. But, that is just an assumption as I have zero proof of that. Names don't always mean much and just because someone is from Eastern Europe, it does not mean they cannot be CF.
On the other hand, the article said that she and her BF had a long term relationship. I have to admit, I have seen people do crazy shit when it comes to wanting to breed. Maybe she simply blew a gasket and allowed her breeding hormones to take control.
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Techie
I agree that a bio clock is BS, but, there are some people out there who get a hormone rush that causes them to want to breed at any and all costs. I know several women who went through that and they did some very insane things. Some paid a very steep price, but you know how our society is and how "it's all worth it" crap is being preached.
If I had to describe this in comparison to animal world, it would be like a buck chasing some doe around in the mating season. Buck will disregard an oncoming semi-truck just to chase the doe. With some women, it is very similar. They will stop at nothing just so they could breed.
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Techie
I cannot help but wonder, what is it that makes people think that marriage is a path to happiness? It is a coin toss at best being that divorce rate is 50/50.
In real life, I hear more people bitch about their breeder or wanna breeder SO than they do about being single. Comments towards me get really messed up too. People (mostly women) tell me that I am usually happy because I like being single. Of course, I enjoy what I have, why not? I am not against relationships but if I am not in one, I enjoy what I have. People seem to interpret it as I am a playa and I like being that way. What an old fashioned kind of a world that we live in.
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screaming sausage
As for home ownership, us Brits seem to have a peculiar obsession with buying property when people in other EU countries have no problem with renting- "an Englishman's home is his castle" and "is it really your home if you don't own it?" are two common bingoes here. I've been bingoed for complaining about bad landlords, with people telling me that if I just worked harder I'd be able to buy my own place, like everyone who rents is lazy and deserves to be exploited, and like home ownership is a problem-free piece of cake which is always better than renting in every case.
Re: Am I insensitive because I find this pitiful? (woman commits suicide because she isn't wed and bred by age 30) February 26, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,975 |
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Dorisan
To me, the choice between renting and owning comes down to freedom and control. Renters have the freedom to pull up stakes whenever the neighborhood starts to go downhill or they get tired of their place. Owners are able to shape their immediate environment to suit their needs/tastes. It is analogous to being introverted or extroverted. People make the choice to rent or own (well, some would like to own, but can't) based on their own character design and neither way is wrong.
Re: Am I insensitive because I find this pitiful? (woman commits suicide because she isn't wed and bred by age 30) February 26, 2015 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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blondie
I would like to rent but can't because of breeders and howling brats. Been there and could not take it now. Unless CF buildings are allowed - lol- I will not be able to rent until I get a room in the nursing home. Retirement communities don't count because of grandbrats and "exceptions" for screw-up adult kids and their spawn.
Having to live with breeders and brats is one of the few things that could make me suicidal at this point in my life.
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mistress rotwang
I am sort of lucky. I live in a luxury apartment complex in the middle of gangsta city. The city where I live is totally fucked up in that there is no economic class divisions whatsoever with regards to city organization. So no breeders because they are afraid of the gangbangers, who don't really bother anyone except for each other.
Re: Am I insensitive because I find this pitiful? (woman commits suicide because she isn't wed and bred by age 30) February 26, 2015 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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exile
Actually most if not all the men I know, get close to 30, and suddenly rush into marriage and babies, or yes break off years of claiming not to want marrage or babies in committed relationships for a new female whome they instainly marry and breed with.
Supposedly they reckon they were more able to tell who they wanted to settle down with around 30.
Re: Am I insensitive because I find this pitiful? (woman commits suicide because she isn't wed and bred by age 30) February 26, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,895 |
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mistress rotwang
I am sort of lucky. I live in a luxury apartment complex in the middle of gangsta city. The city where I live is totally fucked up in that there is no economic class divisions whatsoever with regards to city organization. So no breeders because they are afraid of the gangbangers, who don't really bother anyone except for each other.
I have lived in a big city among people who did not have perfect record, to say the least. It was on the West Coast, in my case. In my experience, I have found out that gang bangers breed too and they let their kids roam the street at any time. Stuff gets damaged, stolen, so on. Their mom usually does not give 2 shits and their dad, if he is around, he is too busy doing his own thing.