kidlesskim Wrote:
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> I remember crawling into my parents bed when I had
> a nightmare or there was a thunderstorm as well,
> and I think that's different. It's also different
> if the child is very sick and needs to be watched
> or if there is a necessity such as lack of space
> or the heating and cooling is only in the one
> room. What is NOT normal is labeling it a
> "parenting style", planning it, placing the kyds
> in there after taking down their beds or not even
> getting them a bed to begin with, encouraging it,
> and when they are too big or there are too many
> slumbering around in the famblee bed, to purchase
> AIR mattresses and lay those all over the bedroom
> floor or drag mattresses in there. That is
> obsessive, strange, ridiculous, possibly perverted
> sexually, allows NO one in the famblee any privacy
> and could not be good for the marriage OR the
> kyd's sense of security and individuality. It's
> primarily the women who chenjoy it and condone it
> and I can't help but wonder if it's because they
> are avoiding having sex until they are ready to
> breed again.
>
> I think it's a psychological problem possibly
> dealing with intimacy and security issues.
> Whatever it is it is NOT "normal".
I agree Kim.