Some good observations/points were brought out regarding the male perspective of breeding, being a father, and the male "urge" to procreate. Since I am female, of course I can't speak from an empathetic or very deeply personal perspective, but I sure do have some general and a few "up close and personal" observations regarding men, their urges, and fatherhood. I tend to categorize the different types in my mind and now I will attempt to put a name those types and list their characteristics, based on my lifetime of observations.
1)The Prince Charles
These are men who are generally have names like Thurgood Limuel Waterford, VII. They could not care less about fatherhood as far as actually knowing their kyds or having a personal hand in raising them or a relationship with them. They have a long familial tradition of "carrying on the famblee name." They generally succumb to the family pressure to "marry well", and do little else with their children besides maybe play some croquet, Polo, or Cricket on occasion, or possibly see their kyds at Christmas for a half an hour in the morning and while sitting for famblee portaits and paintings. Their nannies know their kyds better than they do and the pool boys "know" their wives better than they do as well. They often have mistresses, but are careful not to spawn with them so as not to tarnish their famblee image.
2)The Ward Cleaver
Forever locked into the Pleasantville image of what a father should be like, they are "arm's length" fathers who do a lot of talk and advice giving, but very little action or personal involvement. They don't really "know" their kyds as they leave actual parenting up to their wives, but do a lot of bragging about things their kyds have done. They rely on their wives relaying the kyd's accomplishments to them because they rarely are spectators or participants in their kyds' recitals, plays, ballgames, etc....because they are always "at the office". These mens' lives revolve around their famblee on the exterior, but in reality he is always looking for a way too work late, play golf, or go hunting with his friends. He is doing what he thinks he is "supposed to do", but on the inside he doesn't care much for it. He is the MOST surprised type when his son shoots up his highschool or opens fire at a train station and can generally be heard saying, "There were NO signs of this, he was such a well behaved boy". This one is good for financial support at least though.
3)The Mike Brady
This man follows the life script to marry and have a large famblee in order to keep up "appearances". He appears overly involved in his kyds' personal lives on the surface, but that is only to mask his secret life which could be a gambling problem, a porn addiction, prescription drug abuse, or more commonly he is a closet homosexual who because he fears famblee and societal persecution, will never "out" himself and live his own life openly. His wife is generally beauty pageant pretty, but also quite clueless as to his sexual orientation, because they tend to marry breeders with baby rabies. As long as he can get her knocked up every so often, he can be excused from having sex with her at other times and she will accept his excuses because he is such a "good father". He generally IS a good father, when he can be found. This one is good for financial support too and is generally pretty good at playing house, unless he gets "outed" for his secret lifestyle.
4)The Neanderthal
These types are generally ex high school/college sports' jocks and live their lives as if everything was still a game and a competition. The desire to spawn male children who they can relate to and who will inherit their athletic ability, love of deer hunting, fishing, wearing of camouflage, etc.....overrides any common sense they may have regarding what size famblee they can afford. They will have 6 kyds in order to get the "golden boy" if necessary. They will spoil all of the girls, play "the protector", and call them "daddy's little girl" a lot. They are overprotective of their daughters to the point of absurdity, and can be downright cruel to their boy to "make a man out of him". It isn't out of love or desire to be fathers that they have kyds, but it's more that they enjoy the power and THRIVE on people bragging to them about their kyds so they can beat their chests.They want everyone to know that they are NOT "shooting blanks"as well. They are VERY concerned that their son shares their physical, athletic, and sportsman characteristics and interests and can be devastated when their son happens to like music, art, and/or other boys. They will live a lifetime of inward misery, denial, and excuses if they spawn a 'girly boy". These men usually drink a lot of beer and more times than not it's Budweiser in a can or Bourbon and coke. These men go through a series of roller coaster rides regarding financial problems because of their irresponsibilities and overspending on "boy toys" like gun collections, boats, motorcycles, etc....Their wives borrow money from famblee a lot as they are too proud to ask their famblee for money.
5) The Baby daddy
This one couldn't care less how much or with whom he spreads his seed, but PRETENDS to care, for a short time. He generally doesn't finish high school and menial jobs which match his educational level are not good enough for him. The military life won't do either because of all of the restrictions and discipline, and of course he doesn't like authority figures or the uniform military attire. This one does not care at all about his spawn, although he brags to people when the kyd first pops out and wants " extra credit" for buying the kyd a pack of Huggies or for buying the kyd toys and other junk, but generally his generosity ceases as the kyd reaches toddlerhood and as he latches onto the newest "baby mama". He becomes a disappearing act shortly after the birth of each kyd. He rarely holds a job which can be garnished for child support and prefers to work "under the table", or participate in illegal activity in order to live the kind of lifestyle he sees other 20 y/o's live on TV. He generally spreads his sperm across the continental US, and often has several kyds who are the same age as he hops from bed to bed of any whore who will spread her legs. His main motivators are sexual urges and high fives with other baby daddy and "the often oopsed daddy" when they congratulate themselves on their working penis'.
6)The Often Ooopsed daddy
This one has no sense of responsibility what so ever and couldn't care LESS about the kyds he creates, regardless of what he may say. He is only concerned about his dick and will stick it in anything that stays still long enough for him to do so. He doesn't even ask a woman if she is on birth control and he doesn't bother with it, so he is "oopsed" quite often or acts surprised when he knocks a woman up and CLAIMS he was "oopsed". He never offers to pay for an abortion, he acts happy to the woman's face for a week or two after she springs the "happy news", but like the serial sperm door that he is, he is only looking for his next target and keeps the current baby mama happy until he hones in on the next one. He changes his phone number and moves if necessary, generally before the woman reaches her 4th or 5th month gestation. He will NOT own up to paternity, but denies it until he can be located and forced to take a paternity test, but he is usually long gone before this can even happen. He chooses skanks and sluts for the sole purpose of being able to deny paternity and NEVER takes any responsibility and often pretends he never had sex with the woman even if they had shacked up for a time. The only "urge" he has is his own sexual one. He often has a lot of "baby daddy" friends, souped up cars/trucks, pants down around his ass, and pretends to know gang signals.
7)The Good daddy
This one almost ALWAYS had an absentee father of his own or possibly a stern disciplinarian type father who was cold to him and he vows that he will be a good daddy. He is the responsible one of the crowd in that he will "do the right thing" and marry any knocked up GF. He will hold a decent job in order to support his kyds and seemingly is a WONDERFUL father, on the surface. While this one will spend an inordinate amount of time trying to be a good daddy, he resents the responsibilities of fatherhood but harbors too much guilt not to continue the happy face and live the charade as each subsequent pregnancy is announced. He still considers changing diapers, bathing kyds, and feeding baybee/kyds as "woman's work". When he does anything at all which could be considered child care related then he is"helping", even if his wife has a job outside of the home. When he is alone with the kyds he preceives this as "baby sitting", instead of taking care of or raising his OWN kyds. Because of a near complete lack of paternal involvement in his own life, he thinks that just by living in the home and supporting his famblee financially, bringing home the occasional happy meal, setting out Santa Claus, or taking the kyds to the beach each summer, that he has done WAY more than his "share", as he had no male/father role model. He secretly wishes the wife would stop having baybees and longs for the day when the kyds are out of the house. He is the recipe for an annoying as hell, proud and doting, future grandpeepaw. This man is also known as the suburban breeder who speaks highly of fatherhood and wants ALL of his male friends to be in the same boat as he, so he continually LIES about the joys of fatherhood. This man is a traitor to his fellow man and a real sell out to bachelors at heart across the globe.