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How do I prevent my boyfriend from sending sexually explicit pics to my teen?

Posted by ladybug2203 
Y'know, besides dumping him and calling the cops ?

https://www.quora.com/My-boyfriend-sent-explicit-pics-to-my-16-year-old-daughter-How-do-I-keep-it-from-happening-again
I remember reading somewhere that a lot of guys will get involved with single mothers if those mothers have teen daughters as the game is to get with the teen.
this woman is that desperate and that dumb??

I'll probably get sanctioned. I left a rather scathing answer

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children.

The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

I can't believe people have to be given advice in this case. Someone with a speck of common sense would throw the whole man out the second they learned this shit was happening. Not only is the guy sending risque photos to his girlfriend's child, but to a minor. So it isn't just gross, it's fucking illegal too (or maybe it's not, I don't know if age of consent would be involved here because it is 16 in some states). Why does a grown-ass woman need to be told how to proceed here? As someone there pointed out, Moo knowing about this shit and not getting rid of the boyfriend (allowing him to continue doing it) means she is an accomplice to child abuse, harassment, corruption of a minor, whatever legal name this has.

Toss out the boyfriend before he decides the daughter is an interactive exhibit, report his ass to the police, save the photos for evidence, and get the kid a new number. The thread title implies that this has occurred on multiple occasions, so I don't think the guy just accidentally sent dick pics to the kid by mistake one time.

So where's those mama bear claws that Moos claim they all have? Funny how they never come out when the abuser is the provider of Moo's nookie. I'm shocked she's not blaming her daughter for "enticing" the boyfriend because Moos like this usually stick up for their may-unn and not their kids. For all she knows, the guy might already be banging the daughter.
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Toss out the boyfriend before he decides the daughter is an interactive exhibit, report his ass to the police, save the photos for evidence, and get the kid a new number. The thread title implies that this has occurred on multiple occasions, so I don't think the guy just accidentally sent dick pics to the kid by mistake one time.

One time I could think it was an accident, especially if Moo and Brat have similar phone numbers with maybe one digit difference as such things can happen, it happened to someone sending me a totally random pet pic meant for someone else whose phone number had one number different to mine. Their phone number ended in 5, mine in 4. Cambion thankfully explained that wasn't the likely case.Dunce cap

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Excuses!
The real answer is police and child abuse reports as well as a one way ticket to dump city.

However thoughts of Dracula treatment are sure to occur. Although his black heart is where the second stake should go.

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According to other commenters, she says she wants to marry this dude still. What an asshole.

And you know this is likely not the only red flag behavior from this guy.

Doing anything for a dick, including sacrificing her child. Real stand-up egg donor there.
I like this reply and is a great reason why single moos should never date:

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Really? you break up with the ass hole and report it to the police. You should not have to ask. This is a no brainer. LET ME FURTHER EXPLAIN; If you have knowledge of this behavior, and do nothing about it, you become an accomplice to child abuse and could very well land in prison yourself. A friend, who’s boyfriend was abusing her child, didn’t know about it. She spent a year and every penny both she and her parents could scrape up defending herself. You are in a different, and much worse, position, you know.
Single Moos who start dating are usually pretty thirsty, for both a wallet and a dick. They are desperate and will often shack up with any male that can tolerate their presence for more than a few seconds. I'm sure they all fancy themselves sexy mamas whom men and teen boys are just dying to shag, but usually they're dumpy frumpy sacks with greasy ponytails who live in sweatpants.

Unless a Moo manages to really take good care of herself and not look like a dumpster fire, I would be wary of any man that shows interest in her, especially if he has no children. I would wager he's only getting with Moo to get to her brats, either because he's a Chester, or in this case, he might be jonesing for some jailbait. Because no sane/right man with no kids would look at a single mommy and go, "Yuuuup, she's a keeper!" because they just aren't. Single parents have nothing to offer anyone in regard to dating. They won't even date one another, for fuck's sake!

Of course she still wants to marry him. I'm sure she figures, "Oh he only sent her some dirty photos. It's no big deal, she probably looks at porn and it's nothing she's never seen before" as justification. If Moo won't do anything, I hope the kid reaches out for help at school or to a relative or something. Because I have no doubt this behavior will escalate, and whether or not the girl is okay with these advances (because it's not uncommon for teens to pursue men much older than themselves), what the fucker is doing is still illegal.
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