Now she's on a roll

Here's what Line-Jumper-Moo has to say today:
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Before conceiving this pregnancy, I saw several specialists and requested every diagnostic test available. I didn't make my insurance company happy. They covered some of my costs. There were many they just wouldn't pay for. Those diagnostic tests were the ones performed by the fertility clinic. My OB sent me there after the stillbirth when I said I wanted a more definitive answer for why my body kept killing my children than, "It's just bad luck."

$600 for bloodwork. $300 for a 30 minute consultation. $1300 for a doppler ultrasound and hysteroscopy. I wrote checks hoping I was buying my next child's life. Perhaps I did. We'll all see in the next three months. They at least were able to diagnose a bloodflow problem and an arcuate uterus. The amount I paid is a drop in the bucket compared to what many of you have paid for full infertility treatment rounds.

Insurance companies just don't like infertiles, subfertiles, or dead baby moms. I'm sure one of you can provide a logical reason why. Maybe it's because children are a privilege, not a right? Maybe we're worse than the man with emphysema who keeps lighting up that cigarette or the diabetic at the donut shop. You tell me
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Well well welcome to the real world, Entitled One! We all have to live in it, some of us more so than others.

Someone go over there and take a big stick with a nail in it (figuratively) upside this bitch's virtual head, please! I can't stand it. I know I shouldn't have checked back there. But, do it before she wakes up!

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"I have learned that pleasing everyone is impossible, but pissing everyone off is easy and fun as hell"

:eatu

I couldn't resist:

The reason the insurance company doesn't like infertiles, subfertiles, etc. is because you drive up the cost of premiums for a condition which is not a life-threatening or even a crippling one. Nobody has ever died from NOT being able to reproduce. Just because something is your "right" doesn't mean that society OWES it to you. It is also your "right" to adopt if you choose, but do not expect the rest of us to open up our wallets for your choices. I have the "right" to take a vacation to Hawaii as often as I want, but that doesn't mean it must be provided for me by the social contract and paid for by the communal trough.

You all KNOW she's sitting there staring at the screen hitting ctrl-R (or apple/clover-R) over and over waiting for it.

T-minus 5 seconds!

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"I have learned that pleasing everyone is impossible, but pissing everyone off is easy and fun as hell"

:eatu

What a stupid whore. Yep, MEEEEEEE MEEEEEEEEEEE MEEEEEEEEE!!! ITS ALL ABOUT MEEEEEEEEEEEE! I WANT INSURANCE TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING, FUCK EVERYBODY ELSE!!!!!

If she's got bloodflow problems, there is a good chance that this child will be retarded or have some form of retardation.

I know this because an inferti-moo ex-friend of mine had said blood flow problem. She lost like 5 feti(?) because they'd all develop to a few months then die. She did end up with 2 girls but they aren't "quite right" if you catch my drift.

Oh, we can only hope.

You know, maybe the insurance company doesn't want to keep paying and paying and paying for this chick because her medical history dictates that she can't successfully carry a child to term, no matter what pills she gobbles or what tests are run. Insurance companies can't just keep dropping money on elective procedures.

You're right, KFLL....if 'Perseus' does make it to term, he might have a cornucopia of medical problems that she'll want the insurance company to dole out for, too. Is it any wonder they don't want to pay for it? There could be lifelong problems with this kid based on its mommy's medical history.

She's paying to manufacture a human being. I never thought of it that way. Why doesn't she just clone herself? I think that runs about 10k.

From a purely medical perspective, an educated patient is normally a good thing. There are exceptions, and know-it-all patients who read poorly written and/or unedited websites are a colossal pain in the ass. Especially the wannabreeds rabidly read every bit of tripe on the internet, having no basis upon which to judge the accuracy of the content and the fact that so many of the tests recommended are either inaccurate, expensive or wasteful. Insisting that insurance companies pick up the slack for their emotionally cosmetic pregnancies takes valuable and limited resources away from patients who actually need them.

I would love to take the side that all insurance companies are evil and withhold care, but in truth they are stuck with idiots like the wannamoo who have zero comprehension of the medical situation involved.

I wonder how much she's paid that is above the cost of an adoption. She could have had a child to care for long ago and could have spared herself the emotional and physical agony of a series of stillbirths.

I believe those 3D ultrasounds serve no purpose other than to get a look at the baybee. Insurance doesn't pay for them, thank Todd. And she says the kid looks like her ex. The kid looks like a combo between a monkey and a lizard at this point. She's awash in hormones and her brain isn't functioning.

Did you check out the blog of the friend she is meeting? Holy smokes, that woman has some serious problems. "38 weeks pregnant" by her husband, who is cheating with a 25 year old. (He cheated early in their marriage and she forgave him and squirted out one sprog of course.)

Yet another reason for any woman to be glad she's CF: If her husband goes wacko and starts cheating, she won't have to stick around because of the childruuuuuun or be tied to a prick because of Faaaaather's rights. (I think of my ex, who had baby rabies and was also a lying, cheating SOB during our short marriage. Thank Todd I didn't squirt out a brat for him when he demanded it. I could kick his ass to the curb and not have to see him again. I didn't have to eat shit and pretend it tasted good.)

Bell Flower, I just read that link. Let me just tell you, I'd kick that lying, cheating prick out on his ass in a heartbeat. These women really live in la-la land if they think that their problems will be solved if they just keep having children.

"Oh, if we just reproduce enough, he'll loooove me and stop cheating on me with young girls."
How about you STOP getting knocked up, realize what kind of a man you're married to (a lying, selfish jackass) and get RID of him.

Oh, and I love that part where she 'confronts' the mistress over the phone and didn't even have the cajones to put her in her place, ultimately acting like she had to be careful not to upset her. And she lets the husband sit there and write this bitch a letter to 'apologize'. Uh-huh. If this was my husband, he could 'apologize' to this little twat via his hospital room after I break his legs.

No wonder this keeps happening. This woman allows herself to be steamrolled by everyone.

Rats, you are so right. This guy seriously needs his ass kicked because he's a lying skank but she’s not the one who is going to do it. She says she’s trying to look at the positive—what’s really happening must be much worse. Here are a few examples. You can’t make this shit up:

1. From last Christmas Day 2007. He’s still receiving text messages from the 25 year old twat with whom he’s screwing around, but he assures Wifey it’s “professional communication.” And she’s in such denial---she just wants to have the “perfect day” with Mommy, Duddy and kid. I think the Dud has decided if she divorces him, she'll rake him over the coals and he won't see his kid, so he figures he'll stay around and just keep screwing around. See below, "went around the block," yeah right, he went around the block to text his little ho but Moomy is too dumb to see that.

“At one point, I went upstairs and just laid down on the bed for a few minutes. And then my husband's phone chirped with a text message. And I looked. It was his affair (I have no idea what to call this girl - his fling? his ex? What?). Simple message - Merry Christmas! She might have sent it to everyone in her address book. Or to everyone in their company. Or, just to him. I don't know. But it was a punch to the gut. At any time, at any place, she can inject herself into my life. Even on Christmas Day - a good, loving day spent together.

I went downstairs and walked outside, fighting for control. My parents were still there, it was Christmas, we had had as close to a perfect day as I could have hoped. My husband stepped outside and said what's up? I just said you got a text. We walked around the block, him saying it was nothing. Him also anxiously asking if I had texted anything back, and me saying no, of course not. He stopped me walking at one point, and put his arms around me and said there was no place else he wanted to be, no one else he wanted to be with.

Recovering from infidelity is just so hard. I think he genuinely thinks this will just blow over. Or no, he's not that dumb. I don't know what he thinks. I said why was it so hard for him to understand that zero contact was zero contact? He assured me they were only interacting professionally, though I told him I had also seen a friendly interaction in the texts. He said oh, right, that was a week or so ago, and he was just being friendly. I asked Why? Why be friendly? Why be friendly when it hurts me so much?”

2. Her dumbass husband’s twat is at his job, no less. (She says he’s cheated ‘only once’ before. Yeah, right. I’m surprised this woman is smart enough to use the word liability, but she clearly misses the point. She’s always saying how she doesn’t really want to know. Well, why not?)

." He wouldn't elaborate, nor did I want him to, but it seems his "girlfriend" - his 25 year old direct report - isn't reacting well to all this. (gee, ya think?!) He feels he's going to have to leave his job. He has other options, so this is not a disaster. But his company is a small start up of friends. He's one of the top people. He says no one knows at work, but I have to believe that's not going to last long. If this woman is not reacting well to him, it's going to trickle out. Early on I gave him a really hard time about how he was screwing up his work - how he was setting his company up for a bad fall. How he was totally in the wrong, and how this woman could sue. If the board of his company found out what he was doing, how they would fire him because of the liability he was causing.”

3. November 2007 . This woman is in some serious denial:

“OK, I am feeling like an idiot/Dr Phil wannabe having typed out that my husband and I had unprotected sex while discussing him finding an apartment. I'm not an idiot. Or a woman who would trick her husband into having a child to force him to stay with her. I swear, I am not. I'm level headed, and strong, full of common sense, and practical. In real life. I seem to have exited real life somewhere along the way, though.”