Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 05, 2023 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,064 |
Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 07, 2023 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,976 |
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If a woman rejects me on the basis of having kids, then she was shallow anyway and I dodged a bullet.
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I don't want to let someone know about my children and see them until they've proven themselves to me.
Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 07, 2023 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,364 |
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Cambion
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I don't want to let someone know about my children and see them until they've proven themselves to me.
Okay I can get not introducing your date to your brats until the relationship has gone on for a bit to ensure it's possibly serious and not just a fling. That is a wise thing to do in the event the date is a psycho so your kids aren't exposed to a potentially dangerous person. But you still need to fucking TELL THEM you have kids! Why is it that the woman must prove herself to this assclown, but he doesn't have to prove himself to her in the form of being honest?
Having kids is not a deal-breaker for all women, but lying most likely is. Then when no woman wants his stupid ass, he'll bitch to everyone about how women are all shallow cunts. Because yes, it's the women who are the problem in this equation.
Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 08, 2023 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,434 |
Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 08, 2023 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,364 |
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Besides, his logic is faulty: if he wants to "dodge bullets" by not being around women who are unwilling to be with a childed man, it makes sense to disclose parental status immediately!
I don't want to date anyone with kids so I put it in my profile that I'm not interested if you have kids or want them later. I don't match with anyone who has information about kids in their profile, and it is normally one of the first questions I ask. That's what this guy would do if he was actually trying to avoid incompatible people.
Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 15, 2023 | Registered: 7 years ago Posts: 651 |
Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 15, 2023 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,434 |
Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 15, 2023 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,364 |
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The comments there are missing the point. There are so many people trying to say "Well, single mothers can't disclose that they are moms because they might attract pedophiles." You know what they can do? They can avoid matching with people who say IN THEIR PROFILE that they don't want to meet people with kids.
Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 16, 2023 | Registered: 7 years ago Posts: 651 |
Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 16, 2023 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,976 |
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Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 16, 2023 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,976 |
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yurble
I suppose, I can just maybe grant that someone might not want to list kids in their profile because they are concerned about someone with a specific interest in children. However, if that's the argument they should avoid anyone whose profile says that they do not want children. People who are adamant about not being around kids puts that out there, and people can also put "not interested if you have kids" when they do want kids but not stepchildren. The instant a breeder matches with someone who has explicitly stated that in their profile they lose all benefit of the doubt and become the asshole.
Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 17, 2023 | Registered: 7 years ago Posts: 651 |
Re: Sneaky duhs in the dating world August 17, 2023 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,976 |
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if I cant get attention over the dinner table as a friend of a parunt, how, just how, are these people dating and not having kids enter the chat????