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kittehpeoples
Fucking yikes. At that point it seems like a self-defense class would be better advice. Because I'm guessing by then it would be really hard to get the kid into a home where they should have been all along.
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bell_flower
Of all the reasons I'm glad I'm childfree, the possibility of autism or having a disabled chyld is right up there.
Just say no, and that will never be your life.
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Cambion
Long sleeves might protect your skin from bites and scratches, but it also gives the tard something else to grab onto. And no specific clothing will protect your ass from a 300-pound angry tard. You could wear chainmail and they'd still find a way to hurt you.
This person acts like a tard is just a dumb animal that needs to be corralled for a little bit until they run out of juice like a cranky toddler that needs to cry it out. They seem to forget that tards can have damn near superhuman strength and stamina, as well as opposable thumbs and minimal dexterity to do things like open doors and unlock gates. It's also cute that this person thinks a rampaging hulkatard wouldn't be able to bust through a plastic gate like the Kool-Aid man, padlock or not. Yes, let's entrust the safety of the other children to a piece of fucking plastic. Good strategy.
And does this person really think that a tard gives anything resembling a fuck about Mommy's sad butthurt expression when he's trying to cave her face in with his ham fists? Moo can make pouty faces all she wants, it won't stop Tardo from concussing her or breaking her neck. Better advice is if you cannot avoid a physically violent tard, you HIT THEM BACK. Don't fight fair either because there is no referee and the tard isn't going to hold back. Punch, kick, slap, choke, gouge the eyes, clap the ears, take nut shots if the tard is male, and don't be afraid to use nearby objects. A taser would be a good self defense investment, maybe pepper spray too. Subdue the violent asshole like you would any other attacker - just because it's your precious darling angel baby doesn't mean they won't seriously hurt you or kill you.
What are they gonna do if you hit them? Tattle? You can say he hurt himself and not to believe claims of abuse because he's a tard and doesn't know what he's talking about. I might suggest a martial arts class or two for self defense purposes, but it might not be enough when the tard can easily overpower most people. You think for one second if a tard got physical and put hands on me that I'd sit there and take it because they're retarded? Fuck right off, I would have zero reservations about breaking their fucking nose.
Yeah I know that probably sounds mean to get rough with a tard, but even the dumbest retards understand pain and I guarantee once they get a few beatings and realize you will not sit there and be their punching bag, they will either knock off their shit or direct their aggression elsewhere. They have just enough of their reptilian brain to know enough to go after those they perceive as weak, easy prey.
And for the love of fuck, if there are any other siblings in the house, send them somewhere else to live. Normal kids should not have to live with violent asshole retards and have their lives and safety revolve around them, and no pets under any circumstances.
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Cambion
Long sleeves might protect your skin from bites and scratches, but it also gives the tard something else to grab onto. And no specific clothing will protect your ass from a 300-pound angry tard. You could wear chainmail and they'd still find a way to hurt you.
This person acts like a tard is just a dumb animal that needs to be corralled for a little bit until they run out of juice like a cranky toddler that needs to cry it out. They seem to forget that tards can have damn near superhuman strength and stamina, as well as opposable thumbs and minimal dexterity to do things like open doors and unlock gates. It's also cute that this person thinks a rampaging hulkatard wouldn't be able to bust through a plastic gate like the Kool-Aid man, padlock or not. Yes, let's entrust the safety of the other children to a piece of fucking plastic. Good strategy.
And does this person really think that a tard gives anything resembling a fuck about Mommy's sad butthurt expression when he's trying to cave her face in with his ham fists? Moo can make pouty faces all she wants, it won't stop Tardo from concussing her or breaking her neck. Better advice is if you cannot avoid a physically violent tard, you HIT THEM BACK. Don't fight fair either because there is no referee and the tard isn't going to hold back. Punch, kick, slap, choke, gouge the eyes, clap the ears, take nut shots if the tard is male, and don't be afraid to use nearby objects. A taser would be a good self defense investment, maybe pepper spray too. Subdue the violent asshole like you would any other attacker - just because it's your precious darling angel baby doesn't mean they won't seriously hurt you or kill you.
What are they gonna do if you hit them? Tattle? You can say he hurt himself and not to believe claims of abuse because he's a tard and doesn't know what he's talking about. I might suggest a martial arts class or two for self defense purposes, but it might not be enough when the tard can easily overpower most people. You think for one second if a tard got physical and put hands on me that I'd sit there and take it because they're retarded? Fuck right off, I would have zero reservations about breaking their fucking nose.
Yeah I know that probably sounds mean to get rough with a tard, but even the dumbest retards understand pain and I guarantee once they get a few beatings and realize you will not sit there and be their punching bag, they will either knock off their shit or direct their aggression elsewhere. They have just enough of their reptilian brain to know enough to go after those they perceive as weak, easy prey.
And for the love of fuck, if there are any other siblings in the house, send them somewhere else to live. Normal kids should not have to live with violent asshole retards and have their lives and safety revolve around them, and no pets under any circumstances.
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LoveToLurk
So this article basically admits that they like to know that they’ve hurt their victims (all the stuff about not showing a “big reaction”). It goes hand in hand with how they always go after their mothers and younger siblings, but rarely their fathers or older males who could easily beat the crap out of them.
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LoveToLurk
So this article basically admits that they like to know that they’ve hurt their victims (all the stuff about not showing a “big reaction”). It goes hand in hand with how they always go after their mothers and younger siblings, but rarely their fathers or older males who could easily beat the crap out of them.
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ladybug2203
oh lordy low, my commentary in red
https://www.curriculumforautism.com/blog/10-ways-to-keep-yourself-safe-if-your-child-with-autism-is-aggressive
"10 Ways to Keep Yourself Safe if Your Child with Autism is Aggressive
August 11, 2021 Kirsten McKay
In the long term, you want to work out why your child is being aggressive so you can implement strategies to help them. But if you need to keep yourself and your other kids safe now, here are 10 ways to help you do that:
Think about your clothes - baggy clothes are harder to grab. Long sleeves & gloves can protect your arms & hands. Denim is tougher than other fabrics so it can reduce bruising from nips & bites most autards have the strength of Godzilla, i assure u they can grab onto any fabric
Wear shoes you can run in - you want to move fast without tripping. Canvas shoes can be safer than slippers if you want to move backward fast.even tho their coordination often sucks they can be surprisingly fast, unlikely you'll be able to outrun them
Keep your distance- the longer your kid’s arms & legs, the further back you need to be. If your child is good at throwing, keep out of range of flying objects (and don’t keep hard objects where they might get them). let's throw hardly out instead
Think about your exit route. When your child begins to get upset/agitated and you think this can lead to aggression, slowly and calmly position yourself between them and the door to make sure you can get out of the room quickly & safely if need be.as someone who grew up in such an environment: my exit strategy is to leave and never look back.
Defend yourself from punches and kicks with a large martial arts kick pad. You want one with a handle on the back that you can keep a good grip of. pfft yeah right, they're plenty strong enough they'll just grab that pad away from u throw it away like a ragdoll then come after u with an even greater vengeance.
Pet gates are taller than baby gates and can be used to keep rooms or areas of your house safe for siblings. If your child can open them, drill a hole through the plastic cover/handle & use a combination padlock. hmmm the pet gate thing might not be a bad idea, but to put normal siblings behind it while tardley gets the run of the house is BS of the highest order. Tardley should be behind the padlock petgate
If you know your child is safe, but they want a big reaction for hurting you and/or their siblings, then walk away and leave them to calm down.but I thought tardleypoo just doesnt understood what theyre doing? Hits so close to home, when I was hit I got in trouble for screaming too loudly and it was "my fault" she was more upset
If you’re not able to avoid getting hurt, try your hardest not to give them a big reaction. That doesn’t mean that you smile and accept getting hurt. You can look hurt, sad, annoyed (whatever your child will understand best), but avoid screaming, yelling and crying if you can. or maybe they'll keep upping the ante until they get the reaction they're looking for, if hurting u is their goal they won't stop til it's accomplished
If your child is aggressive in the car, make sure they are in the back seat and purchase the clear screens used in police cars and taxis.i agree with the police car part
Have a Plan B. Try to think ahead and have emergency plans & routines in place so that your other kids know what to do if your child becomes aggressive." riiight expect your normal kids to have a crystal ball on when it'll happen
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