Not going to flame you either. I also had an ex who wanted babies. THis was mainly due to his parents and other relatives pressuring him to "settle down and start a family" since his sister (who's 7 years older than he is) has 3 teenage kids (now 16, 14, and 13).
I was brainwashed at first into thinking that's all there is in life for women to do is to have babies and that careers and personal lives come second and even though I don't like children for the most part "it's different when they are your own".
Before I got my current job as a ladies' clothing retail clerk, I would get "baby rabies" that would be cured by trips to Wal-Mart, the mall, and the grocery store. Now putting up with breeders' brats while the breeders shop on an almost daily basis has made my tubes tie themselves.
Plus discovering all these CF communities has helped me realise that I'm not a "freak" for not wanting children of my own. I fonly mainstream media wasn't so breederific and would tell people that being CF is just as much of a valid choice as choosing to have chidren when you're emotionally, mentally, and finantically responsible enough to.