When I was a PTA officer at my stepkyd's elementary school up until 2001, there were a handful of habitual offender parents who absolutely would NOT take regular responsibility to insure that their chyld had something to eat at lunch. The standard operating procedure up until that point had been to let the kyd "charge" his lunch indefinately while sending home dunn letters to moomie. The same procedure was followed with the NUMEROUS lunches which had been paid for with non sufficient funds checks as well. The principal would call each moomie and were treated as if they were debt collectors by evading their calls (if they answered at all), made insincere promises to pay, and some got downright belligerent. These contacts regarding their lunchless kyds were ALWAYS made with kid gloves and accompanied by forms for them to complete for free or reduced lunch programs, or temporary free lunches due to circumstances, which they rarely sent back.
The school gets penalized for lunches which remain unpaid, they don't want kyds (ages 5-12) going without lunch so they continue to "carry" the kyd(s), they provide all of the appropriate paperwork before school starts for free lunch programs, they continue to offer help (free/reduced) to the lunchless kyds' parents, so I don't really know what else they can be expected to do do when all of their efforts are exhausted and what they have left amounts to an unpaid restaurant tab which someone skipped out on. It was like a virus too, with more and more kyds "forgetting" their lunches and sliding on through the lunch line until they had 40% nonpayment of lunches one semester which had remained unpaid a week or longer and several kyds had not had a lunch paid for since September, while the holiday winter break was fast approaching.
They played around with ideas which seemed fair as well as legal and they came up with some board approved "new lunch rules". The first notice went home with all kyds for the Christmas break, then the same "warning" announcement went home with each and every kyd every day for a week prior to the new implementation. The announcement of the new rules had to be signed and returned by a parent/guardian under the threat of being reported to CPS for non compliance. The new rules went into effect some ten days or so after that last notice and the rule was that ANY child (even first time true forgetters)who didn't bring a lunch from home, have the money to pay for a lunch, or who had his lunch prepaid, was given a peanut butter sandwich and a carton of milk. If this happened on more than three consecutive school days then they would be reported to CPS for potential neglect charges. The "threat" was convincing and offically worded in that ALL school complaints would promptly be investigated by a case worker.
This worked like a CHARM! The guilty parties were welfare whores and in NO WAY wanted CPS knocking on their door opening any investigations or asking any questions as that might delay or put a stop to their ADC check. There were still those who would let the kyd eat a peanut butter sandwich 3 out of five days, but just like everything else they had just learned how to work the system. How LAZY can a whore be to just refuse to fill out the appropriate forms so her kyd can have lunch and likely would qualify for breakfast too? It's OBVIOUS that the poorest of welfare whore could toss a sandwich and an apple into a bag, so basically they didn't give a shit about their kyds' nutritional OR emotional needs. This spoke volumes to me because they obviously didn't have any problems with all of the paperwork which goes along with getting on welfare in the first place, so why the outright refusal to get their kyds fed?
This CLEARLY demonstrates that they are in it for the monthly check and couldn't give a shit less if their kyd has any food while attending school or proper nutrition thoughout the day (and likely night.) This is probably representative as to how the kyd(s) eat or don't eat at home as well. It's simply another, "It's ALL for my kyyyddds!", or "My kyds are the MOST important thing in the world to meeeeeeeee!!!", or "I would do ANYTHING for my kydddsssssss!", myth(s) which has/have been completely busted. I hate welfare whores and the damage that they inflict on their potential adult members of society. It's no small wonder that many of their kyds end up as pre-teen hustlers as hunger can do that to a person. Mix in mutant genes, shitty homelife, a whorish mother, AND poor nutrition and hunger, and you have potential criminals being raised within the public school system. When I hear of a 14 y/o who has been convicted as an adult for killing a store owner for $60 and some change, I often wonder if he was one of those kyds who never had anything to eat.
I HATE welfare whores and their negative impact on society.