"...Basically I will go to their room and get them either in the morning, or after nap and they are covered with poop, and so is:
The furniture
The floor(carpet)
The walls
The doors
The window
The mirror
Toys
Blankies(special ones they each have that they need for naps/bedtimes)
And anything else. I have tried calmly telling them it is unacceptable. We poo in the potty preferably or diaper if we must but not on the floor and not to touch it. It is yucky. It could make them sick. It means we cannot go out to play if we were going to because it takes Mommy a long time to clean up. I have had them help me clean up a bit, the bath post poop is never a fun bath but a quick just wash up to make sure they are decontaminated. Today they helped wash the blocks so they were clean. My mom suggested having them help clean up But I have a hard time doing it. It is hard dirty work! It takes hours to scrub all walls furniture door window and carpet clean the floor And as I am talking to the girls I have gotten so angry. Which works with my grandma saying she thinks I am going to have give in and just smack them. They know what happens and still do it at least a couple of times a month! What should I do?..."
This is absolutely revolting and there is NO reason that a 2 and 3 y/o kyd should continue doing this nonsense. I can not even begin to imagine having that to look forward to on a daily basis. I agree with meemaw in that she needs to SMACK them. Not only a good smacking, or if it were me then a beating might be in order, but she needs to make their ENTIRE ROOM plastic only and paint the walls with a gloss paint that is easily cleaned. She needs to LOCK their asses in their room with a clean potty, wipes, and whatever shit accessories that kyds use UNTIL they can stop shitting everywhere and "painting" everything in sight. As far as I am concerned, they could stay in that room until they stopped doing it and MY house would be "off limits". There is no sense in this at all and as long as she keeps cleaning it up and not punishing them, it will continue to happen. You can't "tell" a toddler that something is unacceptable, you have to show them and make sure they remember it. These gentle discipline women are idiots.