#1236 constant oopsing

Why the guy doesn't snip?
A) moo is a bitch on wheels..
moo would divorce him in a second if she coudln't sprogg
she would drag him around to fertility specialists and it would
'come out in the wash' so to speak
C) moo is a psycho imo

Sounds like so many people I know...

I agree. And men should realize what is happening, grow a big ol' set of balls and do something about. If these men get snipped, what are their wives going to do about it? Cry? Throw a hissy fit? Make the man's life a living hell? Divorce the man? I highly doubt they will file for divorce. The other things, probably.

Men with SAHM's have somewhat of the upper hand here. Yes, they can get divorced and have to pay child support but think about the living hell the moo's life will be raising brats on her own. I think these men who are being manipulated need to sit the bitches down and say, "listen bitch, this is the way things are going to be, you've been running the show for far too long...."

That's what I have such a hard time understanding: why the duhs put up with their psycho leeching bitches. Don't they know they would be better off without them? There are plenty of great single women out there who would appreciate a good man!

Oh, right: those are only to hit on and cheat with. I forgot.

Actually, I don't know many single women who want to put up with the baby mamma drama that an ex-wife can bring. I would never, ever, date a man who had kids.

Considering that most fellows don't seem to be into the 'baby thing', especially once the fun part of making it is over, I have a hard time feeling any sympathy for a man who keeps sprogging with a demanding wife. I agree with KidFree, these fellows should grow some balls, say "woman, this is MY body and MY wallet, and I'm goign to make sure we don't have any more kids" if she doesn't like it then she'll divorce him and he won't have to deal with the kids no more if he really doesn't want to.

Thanks KidFreeLovnLife. I totally agree. Why don't they, as you said "sit the bitch down" and grow some balls. Absolutely. I'd do one more thing....take away all of her toys; the SUV, trips to the mall, gyms memberships, money for brain dead lunches with fellow moos. Then say "we're now on a tight budget, time to clean the house yourself....time to earn your keep!" If she refuses, she has two options 1) get a job that pays or 2) say goodbye to me because I'm outta here!"

Thanks everyone for your comments. It helps me greatly to know that I'm not the only one who witnesses this and gags in repulsion.

It is sad to say but a lot of wives have to be treated like children when it comes to money. I used to automtically take the woman's side when she would complain of the husband demanded extreme accountability with the household funds. Most of the time, the complainers were stay-at-home wives or held little part-time jobs while spending as if THEY were earning the big dollars.

I remember an old co-worker of mine who went in for a vasectomy. He told his boss he was taking a couple days off to get it done. I don't think I would have told the details because his boss told a few of the male co-workers and they started to rag him about it. I found out about it because I was "one of the guys." I had a lot of respect for this guy. He was 29 and had three kids. He's like, "Nour, I'm young. I don't want anymore kids!" I wanted to slap those pricks who were making fun of him. He was more of a man than any of those punks.

I've seen this on Dr. Phil. The wife doesn't work, doesn't parent her kids, spends and spend money like there is NO tomorrow, always at the mall... On the other hand, the husband gets pissed because the wife isn't helping out saving money to pay the bills... But I think the husband should get his testosterone going and tell these bitches off, and give her an ultimatum.

You make the money, YOU get to spend it as you wish.

'Nuff said.

Nour, I knew a guy like your co-worker. He was in his 30's, happily married, two kids, and he and his wife agreed *NO MORE KIDS*. So he went forth with the snip, and everyone knew about it.

A couple of guys gave him crap for *giving up his manhood*. But he didn't listen to them, as he knew he was making a responsible decision. He was PROUD of his choice, which I thought was great!

The assholes who rib the snipped guys will soon be singing a different tune in a few years, when they find themselves oopsed and oopsed again by selfish breeder bimbos.

But I can see why some guys might not want to talk so publicly about it. At the time of Catdaddy's snip, he was working for some breeder asshole guy, the sort who regularly brought his brats into the office, let them run and scream and annoy the fuck out of everyone, and thought it was *cute*. So Catdaddy just told the boss that he was gong for some *outpatient surgery* and left it at that. It was easier than dealing with any assholery on the job.

Those moo's who are on birth control and claim it failed and got preggers, You know they were skippin pills to "Oops!" their husbands. I've seen it so many times. There is no excuse for irresponsiblity.

Lady Cooper Wrote:
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> You make the money, YOU get to spend it as you
> wish.
>
> 'Nuff said.

I totally agree, Lady Cooper. If the husbands are earning the bulk of the money, Wifey cannot complain how he spends it while keeping HER on a tight economic leash. I remember when I tried to act like an entitlement-minded sprog by saying how my mom always bought things for herself while I got a treat once in a while. Her response was, "*I* go to work every day to earn this money so I can spend it as I wish. You do not work for this money so you get what I give you when I see fit." Even as a child, this made sense to me so I kept my big trap shut! :lips

Water Lily Wrote:
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> Those moo's who are on birth control and claim it
> failed and got preggers, You know they were
> skippin pills to "Oops!" their husbands. I've seen
> it so many times. There is no excuse for
> irresponsiblity.

Like my former best friend. Note the "former". I forgave the first time, in case it really was an "accident" - but not the second one.

I hate when men act like pigs, but these bitches kinda get what they deserve when hubby dumps them for a 20 y.o. slut after wifey has wasted her whole life being a slave to sprogs.

And then moo has a nervous breakdown 'cause she never had to take care of her damn self in her life before - since she went straight from daddy to hubby, of course.

catmommy9 Wrote:
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> A couple of guys gave him crap for *giving up his
> manhood*.

My sv66 is planning to get snipped soon. We talked about the issue of "loosing your manhood".

He said guys that think this way are in the cultural stone age. He also said what guy in his right mind wouldn't want the freedom to have sex anytime without the worry of possible repugnancy?

I guess it all boils down to how mature and responsible a guy is.

see in some cases the doctors who do the vasectomies have to ask the wife if she gives permission. yes you heard me.

its no longer about personal decisions. they used to hav to ask it long time ago, http://www.backlash.com/content/gender/1995/1-jan95/page5.html

and in some places they still do it

http://www.northhillsim.com/index.cfm/fuseaction/content.print/mode/dtl/type/2568/pack/1/post/index.cfm/fuseaction/site.content/mode/dtl/type/2568/pack/1/post/82/section/37.cfm.

its part of the law

a man wrote in to say that at the time he obtained a vasectomy, he learned that he was required by law to notify his (soon-to-be-ex) wife of the procedure. Unfortunately, he did not specify what state he lived in or how recent this event occurred.

in Florida, and state law required that the wife sign a consent form

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Oh good god thats bullshit.

water was that real or sarcasm, i aint sure..

but yes in law, there is no specific rulings, its spousal notification of sterilization. some places are more flexible, but some arent.. since i am not an american i cant comment too deeply, but.. these are things i heard on other boards..

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Lord, what fools these mortals be!
- A Midsummer Night’s Dream, Act III, Scene ii

Voltaire said: "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities."

H.L.Mencken wrote:"The whole aim of practical politics is to keep the populace alarmed (and hence clamorous to be led to safety) by menacing it with an endless series of hobgoblins, all of them imaginary.”

Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former. Albert Einstein

Women have often had to get consent from the husband to get a tubal. And, Supreme Court Justice Alito feels that those men must be notified when the wives want to abort even though most males do not give a damn about their kids and refuse to support their offspring in the event of a divorce.

in some cases the women are being asked about a mans vasectomy. i think everyone should just butt out of it, its a personal decision, personal reasons. and the other partner doesnt need to know. if they dont want to tell them.

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Lord, what fools these mortals be!
- A Midsummer Night’s Dream, Act III, Scene ii

Voltaire said: "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities."

H.L.Mencken wrote:"The whole aim of practical politics is to keep the populace alarmed (and hence clamorous to be led to safety) by menacing it with an endless series of hobgoblins, all of them imaginary.”

Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former. Albert Einstein

Oh, sorry, I guess it wasn't either, just a state of shock... Alito is a right wing anti-woman nut. I hate a great uncle who got a himself "snipped" and just didn't tell his former wife. Short story, she found out, got divorced and he found a new wife who doesn't want kids...

That's the risk - that people will be dishonest about it. It sucks to have to ask permission when it comes to your own damn body, but it is also wrong to mislead other people who trust you.

but imagine the oops father for the 3rd time, he gets sick and tired and sort of knows she will do it again.. its my body, and my decision, and that should be everyones beleif. if you cant accept their own personal decision, then they shouldnt be with you.

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Lord, what fools these mortals be!
- A Midsummer Night’s Dream, Act III, Scene ii

Voltaire said: "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities."

H.L.Mencken wrote:"The whole aim of practical politics is to keep the populace alarmed (and hence clamorous to be led to safety) by menacing it with an endless series of hobgoblins, all of them imaginary.”

Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former. Albert Einstein