While I consider ALL bingos offensive, one that really grinds my crank is, "
You will never experience the type of love that only a mother and child can share, as there is NO love greater or bond stronger than the love between a mother and her child". Okay, let me rip that bingo a new asshole, if I may.:inw
1) While I love my mother very very much and can't imagine life without her, I have experienced love and bonds with other people that I would consider the same or similar as the intensity of love that I have for my mother, but just perhaps in a different way. I don't sit around and try and gauge who I love more than another either, unlike these rabid breeders. I am CERTAIN that my mother has experienced that same level (and perhaps greater) of love for people other than her children such as with her OWN mother, her father and siblings, my father, her grandchildren, etc..... and I know for a fact she has a high level of love and care for one of her lifelong friends of over 50 years. I think this is normal and that GOOD mothers condone, nurture, and perhaps even instill the capacity to love and bond with other people in their children. So, it is simply not a true statement that there is NO OTHER love or bond that is comparable to that of a mother-child.
2)This outright says that FATHERS can not feel the same love for his child that a mother does and I know that this is simply not true either. They use the excuse (worn and busted for a lie as it may be) that it's because they have "given birth and carried it in their bodies", If that was the variable that enabled THEIR love to be so all fired greater than a father's love, then WHY do they demand that people recognize that they STILL feel the "exact same love" for their IVF baybees carried by a surrogate, adopted kyds, etc......that they claim to have for the bio kyds who they gave birth to or carried in their bellies, blah blah blah.......? One or the other is a lie as they simply both can't be true.
3)How can they even PRESUME to know what kind of love that I am capable of and to PRESUME that I love in the exact same ways that they do, so that I am therefore going to miss out on some "special love" which is reserved for "bio mothers only"? Maybe the love that they have for their kyd IS the greatest love and bond ever for THEM, but it may not be for
me (I can say with reasonable certainty that it wouldn't be),
4) It (this mother-child bond thing) OBVIOUSLY isn't considered all that unbreakable and automatically binding to ALL women or we wouldn't have hundreds of thousands of children in the foster care system, murdered by moomie and vice versa kyds, child abuse/neglect, websites springing up all over the world wide web with empty nesters whining that their kyds have abandoned them/cut them off/won't speak, etc...., and all of these "tough love" moomies who just disassociate with their kyds FOR YEARS because they don't approve of their gay lifestyles, their religion, their choice of spouse or partner, their living arrangements, their addictions, , etc......They don't have to "enable" them to send a card, stop by and say "hello" or pick up the phone once in a while. Although, with this SPECIAL and coveted love, I would have expected them to be automatically accepting and/or helpful in the kyds' times of need, rather than disassociate like so many of them do.
5) IF this "special love-bond" was SO SO SO powerful, then how could they just cut the ties that bind like they do so often? Why are there thousands of prisoners who go online and BEG for people to write to them who haven't had a visitor in YEARS and YEARS? WHERE is their moomie? Where were the moomies of those 87 homeless people who died in Katrina who were
finally buried this past year after NO ONE came forward to claim their bloated bodies after THREE YEARS? Many of their famblees were located, but no one came. Many of these people were young and likely "street people", so WHERE was their moomie? What happened to that "special bond"? WHERE was moomie and her special and unrivaled love when her little girl was selling herself on the streets of New Orleans for a vial of heroin or her son was learning to give blow jobs in back alleys for just enough to fill a crack pipe?
6) It must be assumed then that the same magical love is reciprocal so that the child must ALSO feel that "unbreakable bond", which is very very VERY rarely the case. There is SO much proof of this that there isn't enough room on the internet to list all of it. One last thing which is on a related note; This "unbreakable bond of love" that ALL single moos and divorced moos claim to have with the baybee daddy with their comments like, "We will ALWAYS have a bond and there will ALWAYS be a "special place" in his heart for me because of "our baybee" together" , is without a doubt the BIGGEST, MOST BOGUS pile of shit that has ever spewed out of their mouths. I have heard this said SO many times and it was all I could do to keep my trap shut. I suppose that their baybee daddy has formed unique "unbreakable love bonds" with women all over the Eastern Seaboard in some cases. The absolute kicker is when they say that even though he has three kyds with as many different women, that THIS baybee will be different somehow as far as his acting like a father, sticking around, and coughing up the cash for his mistake.:fmbl