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clematis
Not to mention they’ve had much more opportunity to amass savings (and take great vacations, and buy bigger houses, and spoil themselves generally
Whoopsie, their jealousy is showing!
I love the way the term "selfish" is bandied around. It reminds me that the people I think of as "selfish" are those who have and won't share something that I WANT!
Oh, pity for these poor parents who didn't think things through quite enough so as to be able to have the life that the CF enjoy. The life that they want. Oopsie, little too late for them, rats.
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LoveToLurk
These "who will take care of when you're old" bingoes crack me up every time. During my formative years my mother was an RN in a nursing home. I'll never forget overhearing her telling my father how she would find deceased residents while doing her daily rounds, or the things that I saw first hand the few times I went in with her to pick up a paycheck or whatever. Even though I was a shy little sproglina she would MAKE me spend a minute or two talking to the old ladies who wanted to pay attention to me; after all, she said, "BE NICE! Many of them are lonely and never get any visitors." Since all of these people were of childbearing age before the pill and other methods of birth control had been invented, I have a really hard time believeing that NONE of them had any children. And where were all of these children, the ones who were supposed to take care of their parents in their old age? Well, it seems to me that they were busy pawning off their parents onto people like my mother. I'll NEVER forget how sad that place was, and I was all of 13 years old by the time my mother stopped working there. It made a deep, deep impression on me.
I'm just waiting for the day someone tries the old age bingo on me.
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My husband dropped out of college to care for his grandfather after he had a stroke. Why? Because my husband's aunts were desperate to get their beloved father in a nursing home ASAP. The man was still functioning somewhat, but wasn't being challenged, properly cared for, and wasn't even allowed to wheel himself to the bathroom. They put diapers on him when he wasn't incontinent! By the way, Popop had 5 kids, all still functional at the time of his stroke. My MIL cared for her father part of the time (since she moved in with my husband and her father) while my man and I dated. But then she went on to take out 5 credit cards in his name, etc.
Right now my husband's step cousin has just taken her aunt in from a nursing home. Her aunt is 50 and just suffered a stroke. The step cousin is a single mom of 4 kids and she is now taking care of her aunt. By the way, the aunt we are speaking of has 3-4 siblings of her own.
Children, like any investment, can plummet. And they often do.
Re: "Childless, Single, and Downright Terrified" (article & commentary) January 06, 2009 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 5,443 |
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Feh
"Who will care for you when you're old?"
Some low paid, resentful, CNA who was probably coddled by it's parents and is now hopped up on a variety of psychotropic drugs to keep it from going ballistic because in real life you aren't entitled to squat, but it was raised as Prince(ss) of Shit Mountain. I'm guessing this will be the case for most people wether or not they've had children.
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