Re: A very "adult" question (and I don't just mean over 18) February 14, 2009 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,992 |
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Re: A very "adult" question (and I don't just mean over 18) February 14, 2009 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 4,402 |
Re: A very "adult" question (and I don't just mean over 18) February 15, 2009 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 1,269 |
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I think a more accurate predictor of CF tendencies is not sexuality/practices but temperament - with lesser contributing factors being the extent of one's religious belief, one's susceptibility to family pressure, etc.Quote
Yes, temperament... I'm run by emotions and I worry a lot. Not to mention, like many of you, I love sleep and don't do well without at least 7 hours of it. Even then, I'ma bitch on wheels in the morning. Don't FUCK with me in the morning.Quote
i know. But doesnt matter to me, whatever it is. if it makes you happy, and its not illegal (in a bad way), then go for it.
its about freedom, freedom to explore yourself. i know some bdsmers.. for the most part they are great people, i even wrote a story about it and it got me a fan mail..
i think being cf allows us to do what we want, unlike a lot of people, they are inhibited by familial pressures, societal pressures. we have taken that step into knowing ourselves.
Merc, you put it very well. I'm also very open minded and accept people for their different beliefs and values...especially those who aren't the societal norm. Normal is so boring and predictable.
I don't have any real 'fetishes'... Well, I have an ex who got me into dressing up in garter belts and stockings...he was a leg man and ejoyed that kinda shit. I must say, I'm glad I discovered it. It's so much fun to wear all that sexy stuff under your clothes. We'd go out to dinner and I'd put on the real silk stockings with the french heels and seams down the back with matching bra and garter belt. It was the first time in my life I actually felt sexy.
*ahem* Anyway... It's fun to have the freedom to do those things around the house. I love my freedom. I love being able to sit here in my jammies and unwashed hair at noon on a Sunday. If I had fucking rugrats, we'd have to get up at the crack of dawn and start all the mundane bullshit that is family life. I already had that growing up, thanks. I don't need it anymore. I just want to be able to hang out on the weekends.
I also enjoy puffin' on a bong occasionally. I know of a few moms who hide that shit from their kids. Can you think of anything more hypocritical? I remember this one chick I met online who smoked and drank with her hubby constantly. All they seemed to do was party... And they had two young boys who she homeskooled. Pfft! What a fucking joke.
Re: A very "adult" question (and I don't just mean over 18) February 15, 2009 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 4,402 |