i call them wham bam no thank you ma'am. the problem is theres a lot of people who do this sort of thing, men and women, and they ruin it for everyone else. i known complete losers who get a woman with a kid then run.. they are losers, they arent real men, and i known women who kicked men out after getting what they want, and they are losers too, they arent proper women either.
feh your right its about responsibility, and rights, without the responsibility to pay for your actions good or bad, but at the moment the rights of men are being more controlled by legislation, men being forced to accept responsibility, even if its not their fault (case in point a man can be termed the father of a child even if he never saw the woman, or been with any woman or even been the the town she lives in. thats not right) all this legislation and the entitlement issues that are bandied about, does no one any good unless it is gender neutral..
i am responsible for my actions, as are most of the cf, its the ones who are not responsibile , ruin it for the rest of us, you must admit there seems to be more women in the entitlement mind at the moment, have a kid and its easy street finanically or easier, and they are worshipped for it. these people are the ruin of everyone else the cf are generally exceptions to these people thats why they dont like us, we accept responsibility, they dont have too, thats why kids run wild, its not my fault its society, its someone elses problem, parents not breeders are teaching responsibility and they act responsible, but the kids of the breeders seem to get away with more, and thats causing a majority of kids to be irresponsible breeders (a lot of the male runners from familes are in the mid 30's roughly speaking, so something must have altered the culture in that time to make so many more runners happen)
just my 2 pennies worth
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