a lot of it is due to attitude, i am big, but my personality is big as well, so i have only had one comment and that was from my doctor, but i soon shut her up, i stated i am happy, and i have never been happier with who i am.
but thats the secret, be the size that suits you. if thats thin, be thin, if thats fat be fat, that size is perfect for you.. but forced dieting, (pressure by press, family etc), is bad, as most of the diets fail, and they generally put on more weight than they lost.
be happy in yourself, and enjoy life
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