some men can differentiate from film and reality, the problem is trying to explain men to women, its like trying to explain women to men, there are misunderstandings, and mis readings..
but somtimes men see the picture as just a picture.. not real, reality is different, reality is holding and caring and loving, pictures are a physical release, no deeper meaning, and before you shout, i said its hard to explain.. some men do forget whats ultimately real, and whats not, and they go after whats unreal, and are frequently disappointed. some men know that physical release can help, and we need a prompt to trigger it. thats what most men see porn mags etc are.. a trigger for self pleasure.. for lust, rather than real love..
this is what strippers pander to, male and female, the physical representation of what is unreal, thw fakeness of the feelings towards these people. reality means more, deeper understanding,
men are generally a more visual species, we need visual triggers more than women, women are more mental image. not to say one is better than the other.. just men and women see things differently.
physicality should be divorced from the greater reality, not that i am excusing what they do. but the pressure on women and men to follow the physicallity, rather than the spiritual reality is what causes more problems with divorces, husbands having affairs etc..
but in men we need images visuals to help.. focus the mind, thats why men usually draw things to explain.. it helps with the mental processes, women are usually good at explaining, there are exceptions. words are more their tools, i just created a bead loom, i tried to explain it, couldnt, but i showed a picture of it, and bang.. faust understod.
men are more visual, women are more verbal/mental. thats the main difference. this is written by a man, as a man. next time look around you u will see men are more likely to point, or draw, to describe.
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