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I think that's why we get Moo trolls or people who are clearly trying far too hard to be CF - they think we're some kind of awesome little rebel society and they HAVE to be part of it so they can stand out from the crowd.
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I personally would be part of a movement, if there were one, which focused on equitable treatment of the childfree by ending tax breaks, paternal leave, and other institutionalized discrimination. (I'm also strongly against people having children because of overpopulation, but I consider that part of a different movement.) Happily Childfree has a list of objectives that I think would form a good basis for a movement's objectives.
However, I don't expect the CF to organize anytime soon, for a variety of reasons.
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HEY D'DON'T LOOK AT ME! ALL THE SPROGS WERE SENT TO ALDERAAN LAST WEEK!
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I personally would be part of a movement, if there were one, which focused on equitable treatment of the childfree by ending tax breaks, paternal leave, and other institutionalized discrimination. (I'm also strongly against people having children because of overpopulation, but I consider that part of a different movement.) Happily Childfree has a list of objectives that I think would form a good basis for a movement's objectives.
However, I don't expect the CF to organize anytime soon, for a variety of reasons.
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A movement is somewhat organized group of people who have a set of goals and an agenda. The childfree don’t. We’re not telling you not to have children, we’re simply saying that we don’t want any, and wish people would accept it. The parents seem a lot more organised and imposing of their values than the childfree ever are. How many times have we heard a parent tell a childfree person to have children, but have you ever heard a childfree tell you not to have yours? Maybe from the environmental point of view, as the overpopulation issue is concerning a lot of the childfree people, but I doubt many have told you that your life would be so much more fun if you just didn’t have children. That’s not what we’re about. We do want to let people know that not having children is a valid choice, and that the possibility of you regretting it later is slim to none, if that’s what you really want… and maybe there should be a movement for that point of view.
I think every time I’ve heard the term “movement†being put together with “childfree†it’s been used by a mommy-blogger. It sounds like we’re some sort of a cult or something. Although there’s some really hateful childfree people who I do not wish to be identified with, the vast majority of us simply wants to be treated with some respect! Instead we’re often treated like children who don’t know their own minds, and who will change their mind in the end (once you meet the right guy for example, which is a seriously offensive remark to any childfree woman who is in a committed relationship.) So while I don’t believe that there’s a childfree movement, maybe there should be against discrimination of the childfree people. I’m not talking about tax breaks either, but simple acceptance and at least an attempt of understanding where we’re coming from before dismissing it a childish whim; so that the childfree could marry someone safely without the fear that when they have honestly told their spouse to be that they will never want children, their significant other will still expect them to change their minds within the first 3 years of marriage.
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Your kid could grow up and BE cancer.
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I personally would be part of a movement, if there were one, which focused on equitable treatment of the childfree by ending tax breaks, paternal leave, and other institutionalized discrimination. (I'm also strongly against people having children because of overpopulation, but I consider that part of a different movement.) Happily Childfree has a list of objectives that I think would form a good basis for a movement's objectives.
However, I don't expect the CF to organize anytime soon, for a variety of reasons.
That would be akin to taking away the same sort of bennies religion is accorded. It's too much a sacred entitlement to those people to ever be taken away :cool