Adult children who refuse move out December 20, 2012 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 922 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 20, 2012 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
Quote
he's ruined my marriage.. my husband refuses to have anything to do with my kids now.. we have separated because he forced me to choose between him and my kids... I feel guilty because I chose my kids and now I'm lonely, depressed and completely hopeless and kind of wish I chose my husband instead. My life would be so much easier if I had chosen my husband.
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 20, 2012 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,788 |
Anonymous User
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 2,212 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,842 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 8,402 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 922 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 1,155 |
Kelli
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 759 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 423 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,975 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 691 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,842 |
Quote
Snark Shark
"Where is Dan's camera tripod!?!?!?"
It WALKED away! It does have LEGS after all!
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 8,402 |
Quote
loavesstillsuck
The thing I don't get is why live at home with your parents when you can usually, with some effort, enter into a houseshare or apartment share situation with another adult roommate? Such situations offer much more privacy in that, you know, you can bring someone home to have sex with without dealing with all the weird shit parents will project about their special snowflake *gasp* having a healthy sex life. Back in my day (*says the old woman*) you couldn't pay me to live with my parents because I wanted to, you know, learn to live on my own and have sex iwth boyfriends and be an adult and I knew that being at my parents seriously curbed that possibility. Don't people want to grow up and express themselves as adults WITHOUT their parents knowing everything that they're up to? It just seems that these days (*again, speaking as an oldster*) kids are joined at the hip with their parents in a way that my generation (I'm in my early 40's) never was. Just some thoughts. Don't mean to accuse any of you cool posters of anything, I'm just genuinely confused about the not wanting to MAKE it work with another adult housemate or housemates somewhere outside your parent's place - you really CAN do this. And it's fun!
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 7,760 |
Quote
mr. neptune
Twice Dan has been so drunk he was passed out and even though mom threatens to call 911 she has not. She is afraid that he will be combative to the EMTs (Thom, tell me, is that actually an issue?). Perhaps if he was so drunk to be taken away, we were hoping that he would be 302'd but that never happened. He is eligible to be treated by the VA but of course he refuses because the last time he was there someone "beat him up" (yeah, right).
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 8,402 |
Quote
lorelei_diangelo
Lived with flatmates, and they SUCKED.
Friend lived with flatmates, and hers sucked too.
It's not as simple as, "find some friends who want to pitch in for bills together, and party together, and have fun together! ". Your personalities and living styles have to be compatible too, and for most young people, they just aren't.
Living by MYSELF, however, was the best thing I ever did. I loved having my own place, and can't wait until I finish college and can afford that again.
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
Quote
lorelei_diangelo
It's not as simple as, "find some friends who want to pitch in for bills together, and party together, and have fun together! ". Your personalities and living styles have to be compatible too, and for most young people, they just aren't.
Quote
lorelei_diangelo
Living by MYSELF, however, was the best thing I ever did. I loved having my own place, and can't wait until I finish college and can afford that again.
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,975 |
Anonymous User
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 |
Quote
loavesstillsuck
The thing I don't get is why live at home with your parents when you can usually, with some effort, enter into a houseshare or apartment share situation with another adult roommate? Such situations offer much more privacy in that, you know, you can bring someone home to have sex with without dealing with all the weird shit parents will project about their special snowflake *gasp* having a healthy sex life. Back in my day (*says the old woman*) you couldn't pay me to live with my parents because I wanted to, you know, learn to live on my own and have sex iwth boyfriends and be an adult and I knew that being at my parents seriously curbed that possibility. Don't people want to grow up and express themselves as adults WITHOUT their parents knowing everything that they're up to? It just seems that these days (*again, speaking as an oldster*) kids are joined at the hip with their parents in a way that my generation (I'm in my early 40's) never was. Just some thoughts. Don't mean to accuse any of you cool posters of anything, I'm just genuinely confused about the not wanting to MAKE it work with another adult housemate or housemates somewhere outside your parent's place - you really CAN do this. And it's fun!
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 1,270 |
Quote
Kelli
I still live at home in my early 20s for financial reasons. Honestly, I'd love to live on my own, but finding affordable housing as a single person whos not eligible to suck the system, its nearly impossible (even in small town)..
Anonymous User
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 21, 2012 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 22, 2012 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,979 |
Re: Adult children who refuse move out December 22, 2012 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 672 |