Sancti-daddies

It's a doozy:
bathroom hijinx

Kole's daddy is a kunt. Pretty sure I would be shocked to see an adult male in a ladies toilet too. He could've at least shouted to say he was bringing his kid in. Even when they have a male attendant there is a sign on the door.

See, this is why I don't use public toilets. It takes an ignorant dick like this one to violate my privacy. I suffer with severe social anxiety, and some bastard with his male kyd in tow barging into the ladies' can would be enough to freak me the Hell out and send me straight into an anxiety attack. What a bastard. What was with the expletives later? What an immature, selfish POS.

ETA: The cashier should have thrown that foul-mouthed pervert out of the restaurant. Either that, or called a manager to do it.

The very thing that the RWNJs here were whining about when unisex bathrooms for trans people were raised with a proposed bill to offer GLBT equal rights here.

OMGWHATABOUTTHECHYYYYLDREN? So perverts can pretend to be women and rape our chyyyldrennn? Use the bathroom you were born into, pervs.

I say fine, don't give trans people the right to use their new assignment bathrooms, but I better not see your opposite sex kid in mine. And I better never see a grown man in mine. How do I know he has a kid who needs to shit, he could be rapey and getting his jollies peeping.

Funny how everyone wants rules but want them broken when it comes to them and their fucktrophies.

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I want to pick up a bus full of unruly kids and feed them gummi bears and crack, then turn them loose in Hobby Lobby to ransack the place. They will all be wearing T shirts that say "You Could Have Prevented This."

Let me get this straight. Male dud takes male kid into ladies toilets?

Erm, for the love of Gawd, why???? I know mens loos are mostly urinals, but men need to shit too, so there is usually a cubicle or two. Or there is, in most places, a unisex disabled toilet, and I've seen parents take their kids in those as it's easier to wrangle them in a larger space. In fact the changing facilities in some places over here are in the disabled loo, it doubles up.

What the hell is dud's problem? He doesn't want his kyd to go in the mens because he might see a wiener or two?

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The very thing that the RWNJs here were whining about when unisex bathrooms for trans people were raised with a proposed bill to offer GLBT equal rights here.

OMGWHATABOUTTHECHYYYYLDREN? So perverts can pretend to be women and rape our chyyyldrennn? Use the bathroom you were born into, pervs.

I say fine, don't give trans people the right to use their new assignment bathrooms, but I better not see your opposite sex kid in mine. And I better never see a grown man in mine. How do I know he has a kid who needs to shit, he could be rapey and getting his jollies peeping.

Funny how everyone wants rules but want them broken when it comes to them and their fucktrophies.

Uuuuuuuuugh... So tired of that bs. It shouldn't fucking matter where you take a piss. The only time I have ever felt imposed on in a bathroom was when a kid decided to look under the stall to watch me piss, which I immediately yelled at them. I don't think that people are itching to rape others at every moment and it just goes to show how little these ignorant transphobes know.

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Let me get this straight. Male dud takes male kid into ladies toilets?

Erm, for the love of Gawd, why???? I know mens loos are mostly urinals, but men need to shit too, so there is usually a cubicle or two. Or there is, in most places, a unisex disabled toilet, and I've seen parents take their kids in those as it's easier to wrangle them in a larger space. In fact the changing facilities in some places over here are in the disabled loo, it doubles up.

What the hell is dud's problem? He doesn't want his kyd to go in the mens because he might see a wiener or two?

Apparently little boy needed to poop and the only stall in the men's room was occupied so the dud barged into the women's room with the little boy, whose name starts with a K and ends in -ole. eyes2 Heaven forbid the kid's name have a conventional spelling or anything. Wouldn't want anyone to overlook his fabulous-ness by giving him a run of the mill name like all the plebians have.

I wouldn't have appreciated it. I don't need some foul-mouthed dud making a scene in the bathroom.

What I don't understand is WHY in the name of God WHY do US toilet stalls have doors with gaps huge enough for people to crawl under? I can only think of ONE public toilet where the stall door goes to the floor; it's in a casino. And lots of times, the sides of the door have enough gap so you have to avert your eyes while walking past, to avoid intruding on others' privacy.

I'm sure this is justified as a "safety"measure, but I think the downsides outweigh any good.

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What I don't understand is WHY in the name of God WHY do US toilet stalls have doors with gaps huge enough for people to crawl under? I can only think of ONE public toilet where the stall door goes to the floor; it's in a casino. And lots of times, the sides of the door have enough gap so you have to avert your eyes while walking past, to avoid intruding on others' privacy.

I'm sure this is justified as a "safety"measure, but I think the downsides outweigh any good.

Several times, I have been in public washrooms where a child has locked itself in a stall, but been unwilling or unable to open the door.
In each case, either the kid crawled out or someone crawled under.
Theoretically, an adult could pass out in a washroom stall due to a medical emergency or a drug or alcohol incident, but I have never encountered this yet.

Short version: People no longer have decently private doors on public washroom stalls, primarily for the safety of kids.

Someone commented that if he hadn't been such a freaking dick about it .....

I probably would have accepted him saying "excuse me, ma'am, my son has to go really-really bad and the other toilet is occupied, do you mind?" Shoot, I probably would have stood outside the door for a moment to warn any other women about to enter that there was a man in there. But since he acted like a douchecanoe, I would have been tempted to come tearing out of the bathroom, screeching "there's a pervert with a little boy in the ladies' room! haaaalp!" and let him do some 'splaining to the police.

Exactly, Dorisan. He could have been a gentleman about it, but he decided to act like an entitled dickwad.

As for me, I don't want ANY man near me when I have my pants down, unless it's my husband or a doctor. I KNOW that some guys get off on this kind of thing, and I have no desire to be a subject of their peeping or listening.

I had mentioned before that when I was a kyd, I had another kyd peep on me while I was using a restaurant bathroom and I've been uncomfortable with using public bathrooms ever since. The kyd was a total perv about it, too, and it really creeped me out. I don't ever want that to happen again.

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Theoretically, an adult could pass out in a washroom stall due to a medical emergency or a drug or alcohol incident, but I have never encountered this yet.

Actually there are a surprising amount of cardiac arrests on the can. People with cardiac issues often die on the toilet because of straining to defecate. It stimulates the Vagus nerve causing a drop in heart rate leading to fainting or full cardiac arrest.

Trivia note - the vagus nerve is also responsible for orgasm. That release feeling is the vagus nerve in action. Also explains why so many old guys die with the trophy wife or vegas hooker...

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Trivia note - the vagus nerve is also responsible for orgasm. That release feeling is the vagus nerve in action. Also explains why so many old guys die with the trophy wife or vegas hooker...

Since I know you like cat memes eyes2

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Trivia note - the vagus nerve is also responsible for orgasm. That release feeling is the vagus nerve in action. Also explains why so many old guys die with the trophy wife or vegas hooker...

Since I know you like cat memes eyes2

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navi8orgirl
The very thing that the RWNJs here were whining about when unisex bathrooms for trans people were raised with a proposed bill to offer GLBT equal rights here.

OMGWHATABOUTTHECHYYYYLDREN? So perverts can pretend to be women and rape our chyyyldrennn? Use the bathroom you were born into, pervs.

I say fine, don't give trans people the right to use their new assignment bathrooms, but I better not see your opposite sex kid in mine. And I better never see a grown man in mine. How do I know he has a kid who needs to shit, he could be rapey and getting his jollies peeping.

Funny how everyone wants rules but want them broken when it comes to them and their fucktrophies.

Uuuuuuuuugh... So tired of that bs. It shouldn't fucking matter where you take a piss. The only time I have ever felt imposed on in a bathroom was when a kid decided to look under the stall to watch me piss, which I immediately yelled at them. I don't think that people are itching to rape others at every moment and it just goes to show how little these ignorant transphobes know.

I know you feel strongly about Trans issues since you came out, but I think what it does boil down to for many women is safety. It's one thing if a man is obviously going through a sex change or has already changed, but with less then that a woman doesn't know if a man is merely BSing to get access to a ladies room to harass or worse. There are a lot of ladies that have been raped previously, and seeing an unaltered man coming in might end up being a trigger.

It would be better to have many unisex bathrooms with just one stall apiece, so that male/female never ends up in the equation at all.

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I know you feel strongly about Trans issues since you came out, but I think what it does boil down to for many women is safety. It's one thing if a man is obviously going through a sex change or has already changed, but with less then that a woman doesn't know if a man is merely BSing to get access to a ladies room to harass or worse. There are a lot of ladies that have been raped previously, and seeing an unaltered man coming in might end up being a trigger.

Thank you! I'm tired of being told I'm 'transphobic' because I don't want obvious males in the ladies room. Don't tell me that there aren't plenty of peepers, flashers, urine fetishists, predators, pedos, etc. who would just love to have access to woman's restrooms and locker rooms. How the hell am I supposed to know what their intentions are?

I'm tired of being told that my legitimate safety concerns are bigotry.

And before anyone starts yelling that "there is no army of transwomen rapists roaming women's restrooms", I'm not talking about people who genuinely feel they were born in the wrong body, I'm talking about sex predators who can and do use any method available to find victims.

I am guessing that Wendy's has no "Fambly bathrooms"? Sorry I don't go into those places. That Duh was a Dickweed and should have waited for the Men's Room to be available.

My other thought is this: nice eating habits the Duh is teaching Kole (is that a fucktard name or what?).

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I know you feel strongly about Trans issues since you came out, but I think what it does boil down to for many women is safety. It's one thing if a man is obviously going through a sex change or has already changed, but with less then that a woman doesn't know if a man is merely BSing to get access to a ladies room to harass or worse. There are a lot of ladies that have been raped previously, and seeing an unaltered man coming in might end up being a trigger.

Thank you! I'm tired of being told I'm 'transphobic' because I don't want obvious males in the ladies room. Don't tell me that there aren't plenty of peepers, flashers, urine fetishists, predators, pedos, etc. who would just love to have access to woman's restrooms and locker rooms. How the hell am I supposed to know what their intentions are?

I'm tired of being told that my legitimate safety concerns are bigotry.

And before anyone starts yelling that "there is no army of transwomen rapists roaming women's restrooms", I'm not talking about people who genuinely feel they were born in the wrong body, I'm talking about sex predators who can and do use any method available to find victims.

Except trans-women aren't going to be OBVIOUS men. No Trans person is dumb enough to use their preferred bathroom before they are sure they can pass. They could be beaten, raped, or killed themselves. If you don't want an obvious male using the ladies restroom, that doesn't make you transphobic, then makes you normal. Don't confuse me with an idiot. What I'm saying is that this can barrel roll into a witch hunt. I don't want to be labeled a pervert because I want to use a certain bathroom.

Saying you don't want a cis man in the ladies restroom isn't trans phobic in the least. But treating trans-women like an army of potential rapists? That's some good ol' garden variety bigotry. Do you honestly think a little sign that says "women" keeps regular cis men at bay from raping women in their own john? I assure you there is not a magical force field there. I understand the safety concern, but targeting trans-women (and conveniently forgetting that cis men are usually the rapists) is making life dangerous for people like me because people want to label me a pervert. I won't abide that nonsense. What's the difference between a male rapist in a dress and a male rapist who feel like forcing sex in the woman's bathroom? Not a damn thing. Gender expression has nothing to do with it. A rapist is a rapist no matter how they dress. That's my point.

And just adding another point. This is perpetuating the harmful notion that a woman can't rape another woman or anyone at all. While we're at it, let's make another bathroom for lesbians and gay men so they can be kept from those they are attracted to? I doubt that would fly.. because THAT's discrimination! *snort* yet another issue I have with the LGBT community. Gays, lesbians and bisexuals are cleared for bathroom use but someone like me just wants to be a Chester. NO THANK YOU! :sbx

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I hope the next time this asshole pulls something like this, he gets pepper sprayed/punched/hit with a Taser/whatever. He could have politely asked the woman if she wouldn’t mind if he took his kid into the washroom and explained that the men’s washroom was full or something like that. But nope, he had to be a total douche rocket. Fuck him, and fuck his super spayshal sneuxphlayke who will no doubt grow up to be an asshole just like his duh.
Kole. Kooooollllle. Kooooooole.

To me, he's like a public udder-feeder. He's using his kyd to do something that's not appropriate. Just like an udder-feeder uses their kyd as an excuse to flash their udders in public, this guy is using his kyd to barge into the ladies' room. Totally unacceptable.

Catharsist, I don't have a problem with trans women using a ladies' room. I know they identify with female, and that's fine with me. I don't think anyone here disagrees with your POV.

This reminds me of an incident that happened to me a couple of years ago, when I was in a Sears store. I was desperate to use the bathroom, and everything looked fine. When I walked in, there was a man cleaning in there...no sign on the door, nothing to say he would be there cleaning.

Women were walking in and using the toilets as if he wasn't there, but I didn't. I checked my hair at the sink. That's when he turned to me and gave me an uber-pervy smile. I KNEW he was getting off on being in there. I held it and left. I was really upset, because I had to go find another bathroom and had to leave the store before I was finished shopping.

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To me, he's like a public udder-feeder. He's using his kyd to do something that's not appropriate. Just like an udder-feeder uses their kyd as an excuse to flash their udders in public, this guy is using his kyd to barge into the ladies' room. Totally unacceptable.

Catharsist, I don't have a problem with trans women using a ladies' room. I know they identify with female, and that's fine with me. I don't think anyone here disagrees with your POV.

This reminds me of an incident that happened to me a couple of years ago, when I was in a Sears store. I was desperate to use the bathroom, and everything looked fine. When I walked in, there was a man cleaning in there...no sign on the door, nothing to say he would be there cleaning.

Women were walking in and using the toilets as if he wasn't there, but I didn't. I checked my hair at the sink. That's when he turned to me and gave me an uber-pervy smile. I KNEW he was getting off on being in there. I held it and left. I was really upset, because I had to go find another bathroom and had to leave the store before I was finished shopping.

I know, I'm just so over this issue, so maybe I ranted too much. I'm a pistol! z

There should have been a sign or something saying that he was in there. I would have been pissed.

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So.. We know that food and water are running out, with overpopulation and all... Yet people keep on poppin' out those babies! I guess they want to have their baby and eat it too...

My top reason is that parenting gives you a free license to be selfish based purely on the fact that you're being selfish for an emanation of your own self. The illusion that what you do to benefit your children benefits them solely is a fallacy. Every parent benefits from the benefits that their children receive. Henceforth, it gives one a license to perpetuate a dog-eat-dog mentality that I perceive to be amoral. Parents say that their children are their greatest loves, what they forget to add is that they are their ONLY loves and only because their children are a reflection of themselves. I prefer to be able to love multiple people and have lasting relationships of many types and possess the essential core value of empathy for all than to restrict myself to an echo chamber of ego-masturbation and self-serving chicanery.

In short: Not parenting makes you a better person.

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Except trans-women aren't going to be OBVIOUS men. No Trans person is dumb enough to use their preferred bathroom before they are sure they can pass. They could be beaten, raped, or killed themselves. If you don't want an obvious male using the ladies restroom, that doesn't make you transphobic, then makes you normal. Don't confuse me with an idiot. What I'm saying is that this can barrel roll into a witch hunt. I don't want to be labeled a pervert because I want to use a certain bathroom.

Saying you don't want a cis man in the ladies restroom isn't trans phobic in the least. But treating trans-women like an army of potential rapists? That's some good ol' garden variety bigotry. Do you honestly think a little sign that says "women" keeps regular cis men at bay from raping women in their own john? I assure you there is not a magical force field there. I understand the safety concern, but targeting trans-women (and conveniently forgetting that cis men are usually the rapists) is making life dangerous for people like me because people want to label me a pervert. I won't abide that nonsense. What's the difference between a male rapist in a dress and a male rapist who feel like forcing sex in the woman's bathroom? Not a damn thing. Gender expression has nothing to do with it. A rapist is a rapist no matter how they dress. That's my point.

This. Truly trans people are only going to use the restroom that they can pass in; most are well on their way to transforming and unless you do the package check (which makes you the violator, not them) you are not going to know.

Will the unisex baths bring agent provocateurs out of the woodwork? Most likely...and they are going to be tres obvious. If they are flaunting and obviously men, they are plants by the opposition. Just speculation but in these parts ( live in Tex-ass) I can totally see it.

I only raise the issue because it is primarily moos and duhs screaming about "perverts in my rest room" yet they want the rules bent for their tween male kids or even male parents. Someone identifying as M/F is probably not going to cross my radar.

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I want to pick up a bus full of unruly kids and feed them gummi bears and crack, then turn them loose in Hobby Lobby to ransack the place. They will all be wearing T shirts that say "You Could Have Prevented This."

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Kole. Kooooollllle. Kooooooole.

Considering who the brat shares a name with, Daddy might want to consider calling him by a different name. Even the spelling is the same

What a cross between Justin Bieber and a rapist looks like

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This. Truly trans people are only going to use the restroom that they can pass in; most are well on their way to transforming and unless you do the package check (which makes you the violator, not them) you are not going to know.

Once again, I'm not worried about the 'truly trans', it's the straight male creeps and predators who most certainly will take advantage who worry me. Yes they'll be obvious, and that will not be of the slightest help to the victims. I also don't get why it's perfectly understandable for a 'trans' woman to fear male violence, but when real women are afraid of male sexual violence, it's bigotry.

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This. Truly trans people are only going to use the restroom that they can pass in; most are well on their way to transforming and unless you do the package check (which makes you the violator, not them) you are not going to know.

Once again, I'm not worried about the 'truly trans', it's the straight male creeps and predators who most certainly will take advantage who worry me. Yes they'll be obvious, and that will not be of the slightest help to the victims. I also don't get why it's perfectly understandable for a 'trans' woman to fear male violence, but when real women are afraid of male sexual violence, it's bigotry.

It's not bigotry to fear violence. It's bigotry to assume that trans-women are the only ones who will perpetrate it. I'm still wondering why the bathroom issue has only been brought up with trans people and everyone acts like there's some sort of force-field that keeps cis male predators at bay. A man who wants to rape women will walk into the bathroom regardless of what sign is on it. I swear I'm not making shit up. If they'll attack a woman, they'll ignore a goddamn sign.

Also, there is no difference between a trans woman and a real woman. They are both women.

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So.. We know that food and water are running out, with overpopulation and all... Yet people keep on poppin' out those babies! I guess they want to have their baby and eat it too...

My top reason is that parenting gives you a free license to be selfish based purely on the fact that you're being selfish for an emanation of your own self. The illusion that what you do to benefit your children benefits them solely is a fallacy. Every parent benefits from the benefits that their children receive. Henceforth, it gives one a license to perpetuate a dog-eat-dog mentality that I perceive to be amoral. Parents say that their children are their greatest loves, what they forget to add is that they are their ONLY loves and only because their children are a reflection of themselves. I prefer to be able to love multiple people and have lasting relationships of many types and possess the essential core value of empathy for all than to restrict myself to an echo chamber of ego-masturbation and self-serving chicanery.

In short: Not parenting makes you a better person.