Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 09, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,434 |
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 09, 2015 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 1,227 |
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 09, 2015 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 3,842 |
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 09, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,308 |
Quote
yurble
We've often remarked on how breeders are the ones who end up alone and lonely in retirement communities or nursing homes because they expect their family members to fulfill all their social needs. Meanwhile, they bingo us by asking us who will take care of us when we're old - as if they had a trove of people just dying to provide them with stimulation. Here's a sad letter from a woman in such an unhealthy position: isolated and living only for the family visits, finding it difficult to come to terms with the fact that her child is a bigger part of her life than she is of his. I'm glad the advice was more on doing things for herself than guilt-tripping relatives.
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 09, 2015 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 10, 2015 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 2,301 |
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 10, 2015 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,364 |
Anonymous User
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 10, 2015 |
Quote
kittehpeoples
I think anyone who uses the "Who'll take care of you?" line should be forced to volunteer in a nursing home for a couple of weeks. What a wake up call that'd be.
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 10, 2015 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,364 |
Quote
gnocchi
Quote
kittehpeoples
I think anyone who uses the "Who'll take care of you?" line should be forced to volunteer in a nursing home for a couple of weeks. What a wake up call that'd be.
THIS.
Although I'm not as nice as you-- I'd say six months to a year, minimum. That way, there's a greater chance for reality to penetrate even super-resistant Stupidity Shields.
Such morons would argue-- you know they would-- that hey, I was only there for two weeks, so what if nobody visited the old folks, people are busy... That spewage would lose a lot of its power once you got past the six-month mark, especially if that time period included birthdays, Xmas, etc.
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 11, 2015 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,449 |
Quote
twocents
A lot of these geezers think they are very little problem when the fact remains they are as bad as any toadler.
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 11, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 951 |
Anonymous User
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 11, 2015 |
Quote
mrs. chinaski
I imagine that all old people end up in a nursery home.
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 11, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 951 |
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 11, 2015 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 1,651 |
Quote
gnocchi
If and when I feel myself starting to slip, I'm going to step in front of a bus. Seriously, that's a better way to go than in one of those hellholes.
Anonymous User
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 12, 2015 |
Quote
strange aeons
Quote
gnocchi
If and when I feel myself starting to slip, I'm going to step in front of a bus. Seriously, that's a better way to go than in one of those hellholes.
Same. And if I should develop something as horrible as Alzheimers, I'd hope someone would have the decency to take me out back and shoot me, Old Yeller style.
There's no way I'd suffer the indignity of having to rely on caregivers. It's actually one of the reasons I support assisted suicide.
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 12, 2015 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 3,576 |
Quote
boredofbreeders
Quote
strange aeons
Quote
gnocchi
If and when I feel myself starting to slip, I'm going to step in front of a bus. Seriously, that's a better way to go than in one of those hellholes.
Same. And if I should develop something as horrible as Alzheimers, I'd hope someone would have the decency to take me out back and shoot me, Old Yeller style.
There's no way I'd suffer the indignity of having to rely on caregivers. It's actually one of the reasons I support assisted suicide.
Absolutely agree with you. My grandmother suffered from Alzheimers for five years and the pain of watching her suffer was indescribable. I do NOT want to put my loved ones through that. I plan to overdose on sleeping pills if I feel myself starting to slip mentally. There's no point in going slowly and losing my sense of self.
Anonymous User
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 14, 2015 |
Quote
strange aeons
Same. And if I should develop something as horrible as Alzheimers, I'd hope someone would have the decency to take me out back and shoot me, Old Yeller style.
There's no way I'd suffer the indignity of having to rely on caregivers. It's actually one of the reasons I support assisted suicide.
Quote
boredofbreeders
Absolutely agree with you. My grandmother suffered from Alzheimers for five years and the pain of watching her suffer was indescribable. I do NOT want to put my loved ones through that. I plan to overdose on sleeping pills if I feel myself starting to slip mentally. There's no point in going slowly and losing my sense of self.
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 15, 2015 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 221 |
Quote
gnocchi
Quote
strange aeons
Same. And if I should develop something as horrible as Alzheimers, I'd hope someone would have the decency to take me out back and shoot me, Old Yeller style.
There's no way I'd suffer the indignity of having to rely on caregivers. It's actually one of the reasons I support assisted suicide.Quote
boredofbreeders
Absolutely agree with you. My grandmother suffered from Alzheimers for five years and the pain of watching her suffer was indescribable. I do NOT want to put my loved ones through that. I plan to overdose on sleeping pills if I feel myself starting to slip mentally. There's no point in going slowly and losing my sense of self.
I'm sorry for what you went through, boredofbreeders. I'd also say "I'm sorry for your loss", but the inevitable end was probably a relief for all involved...
I wonder if the CF are generally more inclined than breeders to support assisted suicide? It's not just about lacking in conscripted labor, aka children whose reason for being made is to "take care of me in my old age". (Which, as any visitor, resident, or employee of any rest home will tell you, doesn't end up happening with any quantifiable reliability.) I think it's that we're much more realistic about many things, including how life will likely draw to a close.
Death with Dignity and associated movements are finally gaining ground, and it's a cause I'm very much behind.
Anonymous User
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 16, 2015 |
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 16, 2015 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 3,576 |
Quote
ex lurker
I would rather be dead than in a state where I have to be "taken care of"; why breeders have so little pride and self respect as to plan on and apparently look forward to being dependent and helpless is beyond me.
I too have decided on suicide as the best and indeed the only alternative, the only question is when and how to minimize the pain. And this is NOT a theoretical exercise for me : On BOTH sides of my family tree, there are many cases of Alzheimer's and dementia, even a few cases of early onset Alzheimer's.
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 16, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 606 |
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 16, 2015 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 3,576 |
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 16, 2015 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 3,576 |
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 17, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 951 |
Re: Who will care for you when you're old? Nobody. May 17, 2015 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 3,576 |
Quote
mrs. chinaski
@ craftyzits: Thank you for the book recommendation! I'll definitely read the book.
I feel it's never too early start informing youself. Knowledge is power....
It is comforting to know that in a case of emergency, there is a way out.
Btw. Dignitas advertises that the process with them takes 3 months to complete.
They are willing to make an exception in a case of emergency.