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Re: I am so tired of lesbian mommies. October 13, 2011 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 12,447 |
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surfinbird
Kim,
All of my queer friends who have children are completely following the LifeScript(TM). They meet a partner, get married, buy a house, start going to church , and then have a bouncing baby whatever from someone's Jizz In a Can. They have become lemmings. It's a matter of LOOK AT ME! LOOK HOW NORMAL I AM! I AM JUST LIKE YOU! I HAVE A FAMBLEE! I AM SPECIAL! I FIT IN NOW, AND NOW MY LIFE IS PERFECT!!!!
The gays who have children are gay people who never quite fit in anywhere, and they think that being the "family gays" are going to make them be more acceptable to society. They have internalized homophobia. NONE of the lesbians I know who have children are fit to be parents, in my opinion. None of them have any sort of maternal instinct, and they all have some kind of psychological issues, whether it stems from their queerness or bad family life.
2 couples that I can think of right off of the top of my head are lesbians who are in those relationships where one partner is very young and the other partner is up in years. Why on earth would you have children in a relationship like that? That is just poor, poor planning.
The only lesbian couple that I am friends with that isn't planning on multiplying live in Maine and they travel A LOT. One of the women is kind of breeder-pleasey and I am hoping that as she moves through her thirties she doesn't get baby rabies because they really are a wonderful, interesting couple who do great things for society. The other lesbians I know who bred are typical replaceable robots - but they didn't have to be that way. They chose to be like breeders, with colorless lives.
So, that's my 2 cents.
Chris
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randomcfchick
I have a metric butt-load of gay friends, and believe me I'm just as disappointed when they announce they're expecting, as I am when my straight friends do the same thing. It's always the same result. The lesbians with kids that I know are pretty capable parents...but they're just as boring as a lot of my straight friends. I take some comfort in the fact that at least these kids are planned for and wanted. Research has shown that queer parents tend to be better educated, have steadier incomes, and plan for their kids' futures a little better than the straight parents. It's not like you can get drunk and adopt, as Dan Savage puts it. "Oh, my head, I don't remember what happened...what's all this paperwork??"
Oh, and kidlesskim, at least one couple I know tried to adopt, but had no success. Then they went the spermsicle route.
Interesting fact...I was noticing that my lesbian friends seemed to have a lot of sons...apparently it's not just my friends. Y-chromosome sperm apparently survive the freezing process better.
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surfinbird
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randomcfchick
I have a metric butt-load of gay friends, and believe me I'm just as disappointed when they announce they're expecting, as I am when my straight friends do the same thing. It's always the same result. The lesbians with kids that I know are pretty capable parents...but they're just as boring as a lot of my straight friends. I take some comfort in the fact that at least these kids are planned for and wanted. Research has shown that queer parents tend to be better educated, have steadier incomes, and plan for their kids' futures a little better than the straight parents. It's not like you can get drunk and adopt, as Dan Savage puts it. "Oh, my head, I don't remember what happened...what's all this paperwork??"
Oh, and kidlesskim, at least one couple I know tried to adopt, but had no success. Then they went the spermsicle route.
Interesting fact...I was noticing that my lesbian friends seemed to have a lot of sons...apparently it's not just my friends. Y-chromosome sperm apparently survive the freezing process better.
Or the fetus is exposed to a lot of testosterone in utero?
My lesbian friends have sons, also.
INTERESTING theory, my friend.
CFBitchfromLA
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surfinbird
Kim,
All of my queer friends who have children are completely following the LifeScript(TM). They meet a partner, get married, buy a house, start going to church , and then have a bouncing baby whatever from someone's Jizz In a Can. They have become lemmings. It's a matter of LOOK AT ME! LOOK HOW NORMAL I AM! I AM JUST LIKE YOU! I HAVE A FAMBLEE! I AM SPECIAL! I FIT IN NOW, AND NOW MY LIFE IS PERFECT!!!!
The gays who have children are gay people who never quite fit in anywhere, and they think that being the "family gays" are going to make them be more acceptable to society. They have internalized homophobia. NONE of the lesbians I know who have children are fit to be parents, in my opinion. None of them have any sort of maternal instinct, and they all have some kind of psychological issues, whether it stems from their queerness or bad family life.
2 couples that I can think of right off of the top of my head are lesbians who are in those relationships where one partner is very young and the other partner is up in years. Why on earth would you have children in a relationship like that? That is just poor, poor planning.
The only lesbian couple that I am friends with that isn't planning on multiplying live in Maine and they travel A LOT. One of the women is kind of breeder-pleasey and I am hoping that as she moves through her thirties she doesn't get baby rabies because they really are a wonderful, interesting couple who do great things for society. The other lesbians I know who bred are typical replaceable robots - but they didn't have to be that way. They chose to be like breeders, with colorless lives.
So, that's my 2 cents.
Chris
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CFBitchfromLA
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surfinbird
Kim,
All of my queer friends who have children are completely following the LifeScript(TM). They meet a partner, get married, buy a house, start going to church , and then have a bouncing baby whatever from someone's Jizz In a Can. They have become lemmings. It's a matter of LOOK AT ME! LOOK HOW NORMAL I AM! I AM JUST LIKE YOU! I HAVE A FAMBLEE! I AM SPECIAL! I FIT IN NOW, AND NOW MY LIFE IS PERFECT!!!!
The gays who have children are gay people who never quite fit in anywhere, and they think that being the "family gays" are going to make them be more acceptable to society. They have internalized homophobia. NONE of the lesbians I know who have children are fit to be parents, in my opinion. None of them have any sort of maternal instinct, and they all have some kind of psychological issues, whether it stems from their queerness or bad family life.
2 couples that I can think of right off of the top of my head are lesbians who are in those relationships where one partner is very young and the other partner is up in years. Why on earth would you have children in a relationship like that? That is just poor, poor planning.
The only lesbian couple that I am friends with that isn't planning on multiplying live in Maine and they travel A LOT. One of the women is kind of breeder-pleasey and I am hoping that as she moves through her thirties she doesn't get baby rabies because they really are a wonderful, interesting couple who do great things for society. The other lesbians I know who bred are typical replaceable robots - but they didn't have to be that way. They chose to be like breeders, with colorless lives.
So, that's my 2 cents.
Chris
Oh Chris...aint' that the truth? I know several gay-bee couples and they are the most self-righteous breederists around. Everything from the color of the shower curtain to the garage door opener revolves around whatever latest theory on brat-raising is. They consume more of the breeder bullshit than the quiverfull assholes, and become so indignant at any suggestion that they might be overdoing it even just a micron. My best friend was a gay man who died of HIV several years ago, and he always said the best part about being gay was not having to live up to some stupid stereotypes of marriage and fambuhlee. He was so right.
The team I manage at work is almost entirely gay, EN or CF. There are NO breeders on my team. The gay members of the team are the hardest workers. The EN are the most reliable, and the CF are the most entertaining. Most somehow combine two of the three. I fired all of the breeders or saddled other managers with them many years ago. The result: the most productive and most profitable team in the company, and I am such a complete bitch that I will fight like fucking hell to keep it that way.
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Banshee
Leave It To Beaver fairy tale, what else? eyes2
As if using reproductive system would be a magical way to make luvvv more enchanting than ever.
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I know several gay-bee couples and they are the most self-righteous breederists around. Everything from the color of the shower curtain to the garage door opener revolves around whatever latest theory on brat-raising is. They consume more of the breeder bullshit than the quiverfull assholes, and become so indignant at any suggestion that they might be overdoing it even just a micron.