"My Secret Grief. Over 35, Single and Childless" (article)

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Emily
If you don't like it.....yanno, can't you just ignore it?

Can't you just yanno, fuck off?

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So, I don't really get the point you all are trying to make with this thread?

We don't get the point you are trying to make with this post. We are not here for YOU. Can't you just yanno, fuck off?

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I guess you guys find it hard to cope with women wanting children and want to cry yourselves a river about this fact?

Do you see any of us "crying a river"? We're LAUGHING. Can't you just yanno, fuck off?

Could you PRETTY PLEASE just yanno, FUCK THE FUCK OFF?

kthx

(Now I'm off to go mess up your post)

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"I have learned that pleasing everyone is impossible, but pissing everyone off is easy and fun as hell"

:eatu

larious


Yay! Another aging childless Moo- wannabee who cries into her pillow every night we can laugh at!:bawl


Well, I don't get why many of you are so rageful and bitter about this. "Rageful and bitter"? WE aren't bitter, YOU and your old childless sisters who can't seem to find a man willing to fertilize your rotten eggs are the ones who fit this bill.

So she's sad she never had kids. So she wrote an article about it. So? So why post it here and be so angry and incensed about it? I don't see how her and her feelings really affect you at all? If you don't like it.....yanno, can't you just ignore it? Why would we want to ignore free fodder? You are confused as to whom is angry and incensed. Childfree people do not want kids, so we therefore are delighted to be UNchilded whereas Moo wannabees like yourself are the barren whiners and filled with anger, rage, and self pity. We just happen to think it's funny.:Violin

I think you guys are kind of proving the point she's trying to make though: People in her situation - chosen or not - experience endless nonstop viscious hate and vitriol from people like you. Tearing her apart with hate and vitriol just proves the point she's trying to make: she's at the receiving end of a lot of hate and vitriol, and a lot of misunderstanding. You are acting exactly as she predicted you would. If she knows in advance everybody is going to hate her mooing and lowing about being childless, then why does she post about her woes on the world wide web for ALL to see?

You aren't saying anything new that she hasn't heard 1000x before, you know? The article was about the fact that people typically behave as you are behaving now. We could say the same about you. WHY in the world are you posting on a childFREE forum? Why not mosey on over to the hundreds of childLESS blogs and lend your undying support?m

So, I don't really get the point you all are trying to make with this thread? The point we are trying to make is none of your business. Our site was created for childFREE people for entertainment purposes, but we'd like to thank you for your contribution.hankyou

I guess you guys find it hard to cope with women wanting children and want to cry yourselves a river about this fact? "Cry ourselves a river"? That doesn't even make any sense.:crz

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If YOU are the "exception" to what I am saying, then why does my commentary bother you so much?
I don't hate your kids, I HATE YOU!

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Miss_Hannigan
I just suffered through a similar article from The Atlantic about another 40-year-old, self-obsessed New York career gal who forgot to have children, and now regrets turning down a suitor in her 20's. How many of these fucking articles do we need?

http://m.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2011/11/all-the-single-ladies/8654/

(Link is from my mobile, may or may not work for everyone)

Thanks, Miss. Hannigan

The article made me laugh, but the comments were most interesting.

I admit a penchant for social psych, btw ;D

"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." - Edmund Burke

You're wasting your energy here, sweetneart. Aren't you supposed to be knitting a tiny pair of booties and regretfully sobbing into your Franzia?

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"[GFG's pregnancy is] kind of like at the stables where that one dumb, ugly-ass mare broke out of her corral one day and got herself screwed by the equally fugly colt that was due to be gelded the same afternoon."- Shiny

Hey Kim, she called you infertile! Are you gonna sit there and be "insulted" like that? jerry

Also, we don't call all mothers moos. Some are moo-cunts.

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"[GFG's pregnancy is] kind of like at the stables where that one dumb, ugly-ass mare broke out of her corral one day and got herself screwed by the equally fugly colt that was due to be gelded the same afternoon."- Shiny

Moo.

Cunt.

Can we either show this cunt what happens when it doesn't fuck off or ban it's IP address? Having to listen to the drivel of a cunt has gotten really tiresome. Emily, are you really sure you don't have to play farmville or something? You should look at the restroom and see what happens to a cunt when it doesn't do as it's told

Yes, PLEASE show this repugnant cow what happens to trolls on Bratfree.


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EMOOly - aspiring broodmare
Do you just mainly stick to cattle-based insults, or do you sometimes branch out into the pig and elephant realm as well?

I personally like to mix things up. Any of the "lower" animals is fair game when putting trolls like you in their place. Though I must admit I feel bad for insulting these animals by implying that you're like them. Even the lowliest cockroach has some redeeming qualities about it and I really can't say the same for you.

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I'll gladly go away and leave you to your self-delusional little group fantasy here.

Yeah, you'll go away. That's why you keep posting back to back, right?

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Redundant Bitch
Blah, blah blah.... bitter.... blah, blah, blah sad and bitter ..... more blah blah....you're all angry, rageful and bitter. You are anry, rageful and bitter....Blah, blah, blah You'll carry on ragefully, bitterly jeering at me because I dared to call me rageful and bitter.

Calling yourself rageful and bitter? That's the best idead you've had so far in this thread, Emooly. wink

Meanwhile, have you ever heard of a thesaurus? They're these lovely little books that list synonyms so that people don't have to use the same words over and over again. Since you're so intent on trolling (and don't pretend for a single minute that seeking out our board and calling us names because you disagree with our stance isn't trolling) buying one would probably be a good investment.

Oh, and I second outing this annoying wanna-moo's IP address.

Thirded!

OK, i've had enough of this boring troll. its IP is c-76-23-129-50.hsd1.ct.comcast.net and it's getting banned right after i finish typing this. Also, this is a good thread so it's not going to the Rest Room.

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"I have learned that pleasing everyone is impossible, but pissing everyone off is easy and fun as hell"

:eatu

Rageful isn't even a word, stupid moo. Really, she's bitching about the same thing over and over and over...I am no e-psychologist, but I smell projection.

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michaela

"A child will make two dishes at an entertainment for friends, and when the family dines alone, the fore or hind quarter will make a reasonable dish, and seasoned with a little pepper or salt, will be very good boiled on the fourth day, especially in winter." -Jonathan Swift, A Modest Proposal

Hope she didn't get buried in her hoarder pigsty while her violent tardler beats her exposed head with his sippy cup.

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"[GFG's pregnancy is] kind of like at the stables where that one dumb, ugly-ass mare broke out of her corral one day and got herself screwed by the equally fugly colt that was due to be gelded the same afternoon."- Shiny

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michaela
Rageful isn't even a word, stupid moo. Really, she's bitching about the same thing over and over and over...I am no e-psychologist, but I smell projection.

What I smell is Kimmie. Okay, I'm a bit paranoid on the subject, but this isn't a standard troll. The post is articulate with only occasional touches of sub-literacy. And the returning to argue is another Kimmie hallmark. Perhaps she's given up trying to create bizarre CF stories and is now trying moo personae.

I vote for blocking out the posts as soon as they appear--and NOT responding.

I remember reading about her. Does she need to create a different moo persona? Or is she one with a different identity on every site she visits?

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michaela

"A child will make two dishes at an entertainment for friends, and when the family dines alone, the fore or hind quarter will make a reasonable dish, and seasoned with a little pepper or salt, will be very good boiled on the fourth day, especially in winter." -Jonathan Swift, A Modest Proposal

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Miss_Hannigan
You definitely shouldn't settle, but you also shouldn't whine when you're alone and childless at 40, because it was your own choice.

Both these women seem to be well-connected with great jobs and rich friends all over the world. The way they complain makes me wonder if they would have been happier moving to a farm town and shooting out 5 kids with the manager of a Tires Plus.

Some people are just never satisfied no matter what they have. I agree that you shouldn't settle but I also think there's nothing wrong with being unmarried or unattached in general when you hit age 40, or any age for that matter. I had people in my 20s criticizing me about not being in a relationship and not wanting to get married. I could never find anyone I wanted to be with, so I stayed alone and there was nothing wrong with that at all.

Why people can't accept being alone as a viable option I'll never understand.

JD

Well, here goes with the Google-fu. I believe our lovely troll is Karen Borg of East Haddam, CT - a single Moo in her 50s with three grown 20-something brats living at home. Though our troll could also easily be one of Karen's brats: Katie, Rebecca or William, Jr.

I'm not 100% sure this is correct info because I'm a newb with this (what I did find seemed pretty consistent), but if someone can verify, then let the troll roasting begin.

Dear troll: Let's see, I buy whatever I want, go wherever I want whenever I want, have a hot boyfriend and a job I love, but I'm "bitter." Oh yes, it's sheer "bitterness" to remark on the sad and pathetic ravings of a woman whose lifechoices were self-admittedly stupid and who now they spends all her time in "mourning" as emotionally healthy people are wont to do!

I myself refuse to call you a cow, cows are far smarter than you. You're just a stupid sack of shit breeder who thinks a CHILDFREE message board was somehow made better, or minds changed, by your lunatic "factual observations." What does it say about a childed breeder who has to come to a CHILDFREE message board to complain about the atmosphere there?



Now, as for "settling" I don't think anyone should do that, but if your standards include rich investment bankers and you won't go anywhere below that, you should probably rethink them.

I'll go on a limb and admit that i AM "bitter" about certain things that happened and were out of my control, like the time my aunt gave away three of my cats without my knowledge until after the fact. It doesn't keep me awake at night anymore like it did when they first disappeared, but i AM bitter about it to this day and I'm not likely to change that any time soon. There are some things that it is normal and healthy to be bitter about; the foreseeable consequences of one's conscious choices do not make that list.

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"I have learned that pleasing everyone is impossible, but pissing everyone off is easy and fun as hell"

:eatu

I believe we are responsible for bringing our own happiness. We shouldn't expect another person, spouse or...brat (especially a brat) to make us happy. If a person expects others to make them happy, they're in for a very sad, depressing life...because it isn't UP to others to make you happy.

EMOOOllllyy doesn't seem to get the fact that truly ChildFree people understand that we won't find joy in pinching a meatloaf, and have found other pursuits to attain happiness.

For myself, nothing compares to freedom! That's what makes me feel the most joyful.

Some people can have everything....they can have a great home, live in a beautiful town or city. They can have a decent career....loving famblee and plenty of friends, and good health to top it off. What pisses me off is that they have the nerve to go online and attention-whore to gain sympathy (as the article writer had) and not expect a few people to challenge it.

They don't understand, that compared to most people in the world, they have it PRETTY FUCKING SWEET.

I find wanna-moos to be so boring and pathetic. Chances are, if they ever do pinch that blessed loaf, they will end up becoming depressed and angry as a moo anyhow. They will go on to blame the kyd for everything that is wrong with their lives.

They are nothing but a bunch of unhappy cunts that don't want to change the way they think...they expect everyone to fucking dance for them, to make them feel good.

And US crying a river? Oh bitch PLEASE! eyes2

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SlumSlut
I'll go on a limb and admit that i AM "bitter" about certain things that happened and were out of my control, like the time my aunt gave away three of my cats without my knowledge until after the fact. It doesn't keep me awake at night anymore like it did when they first disappeared, but i AM bitter about it to this day and I'm not likely to change that any time soon. There are some things that it is normal and healthy to be bitter about; the foreseeable consequences of one's conscious choices do not make that list.

I'd be bitter as fuck about that too.

I am admittedly bitter about the loss of some of my animals, the loss of assets in my divorce, the way I was treated by him and my church, that my parents were assholes, etc.

But, these are just motivation to live life to the fullest and take charge whenever possible. I don't know any CF women who sit around and "mourn" all the time, even if they have really lost a famblee member!