Pahrunts of "special needs" (shall we say to be PC) ALWAYS have that mindset. They make me fucking sick. They are all embittered people who are so pissed off over having a SNs kid. They think they should receive all kinds of government aid, special privileges, and anything else they think they need. Granted, there are SNs kids who are the exception. From what I've observed, SNs pahrunts are even more bitchy and entitlement-minded than the average moo. You can't even glance in their direction if the kid is making some horrible noise or thrashing around on the floor for fear of them lashing out at you. Sorry, but it's like a traveling side show, who can't help but look???