"IVF destroyed my family" says selfish barren cow November 04, 2014 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,992 |
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Mooooo
And I felt irritated that he was trying to get in the way of my happiness, especially as I felt that the reason we were having to use donor eggs was because it had taken him five years after we’d met to be ready to start a family, and it seemed my biology could have done with starting much earlier than we had.
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Moooo
The deterioration in our relationship was palpable, but I was on the way to completing my family and that was all that mattered to me. I also blithely concluded that we’d been through so much together that we were permanently bonded by our experiences.
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Moooo
He has told me that we tried so hard to have a family (or rather my vision of the ‘perfect family’) that we lost sight of what we actually had.
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Re: "IVF destroyed my family" says selfish barren cow November 05, 2014 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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Moooo
The deterioration in our relationship was palpable, but I was on the way to completing my family and that was all that mattered to me. I also blithely concluded that we’d been through so much together that we were permanently bonded by our experiences.
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Re: "IVF destroyed my family" says selfish barren cow November 07, 2014 |
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Cambion
This goes for any person/couple seeking IVF
But nope, breeders gotta be selfish piggies and perpetuate their genes, even going so far as to fight against nature. If you can't conceive the old-fashioned way and your IVF dumplings are all fucked-up or die all the time, maybe you should take the fucking hint that you should not be breeding.
And I agree. IVF didn't destroy this woman's family. IVF is a voluntary procedure, not a sentient creature. MOO ruined her family with her selfishness, all because she had to have more babbies. Hope it was worth it. The shitty thing is a lot of other Moos and wanna-Moos go through similar experiences in pursuit of loaves, but they never learn anything. They just keep on going, trying more and more for loaves, not caring about anything or anyone but baybee and they don't get that their blind determination is what wrecks their lives, their health, their bodies, their families, their marriages and their homes (selling house to pay for IVF).
Re: "IVF destroyed my family" says selfish barren cow November 08, 2014 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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cf uter
... I could say that IVF ruined most the marriages/lives in my office. They reproduced themselves into misery, but they thinks this is "normal" and me and my CF ways are abnormal....These women HAD to have their way, and when it was going wrong they HAD to do it again. Now they all are in loveless marriages and/or divorced and/or broke as hell, have 0 social lives. Sometimes you can see them seethe (sp?) when I'm kinda laffing my way to the bank and early retirement. Too bad, so sad.:chug