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Oh don't worry. He knows we're not in a situation to be raising kids and he's not the clever or deceptive type. I'd know right away if something happened to my pills and he's so clumsy it would be impossible for him to sabotage the condoms.Quote
mumofsixbirds
Nope. My husband loves me too much to bingo me. He knew I was a hundred percent CF when he married me, and he doesn't want any, either. It was a conversation we had before we got married. I would be verrryy careful with him, make sure he doesn't tamper with BC or anything else. Baby rabid wannabees are the absolute worst.
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ihave3cats
I counter him for only suggesting parenthood for the sake of blood and family name and not genuine interest in actual children
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He has 4 sisters. I think his family bloodline will be fine without his contribution. His father is a tad on the sexist side so it doesn't surprise me his comments are sometimes a little... dated. But he doesn't want to mimic his dad's actions. He just likes to tease me when he talks about it.Quote
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ihave3cats
I counter him for only suggesting parenthood for the sake of blood and family name and not genuine interest in actual children
If he wants kids for the name to go on or to pass on his genes, tell him that having kids does not guarantee either of those things will happen. If he had kids, there is no guarantee they would have kids. They could very well be CF. Then the line stops with one more generation, and the DNA and family name runs out. All the effort of kids without the payout of carrying on anything.
Of course, this is not the only reason I am personally against having kids. But if his desire is to carry on a family name or DNA, you could remind him that having kids doesn't guarantee either of those things.
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We're going to visit again this month and no doubt she'll be sitting her big butt on him the whole time. I feel bad for her because it seems like she's underappreciated. There were no bones or dog toys on the floor and most on the interaction between her and her owners was "Nala! Get out of the way!" They plan to make some big bucks breeding her and selling her rare puppies.Quote
barren4ever
"All his attention went to their dogo argentino." This gives me hope. Hubby and I are CF and would have behaved the same way. I certainly wish this dogo keeps your sweetheart's attention for the longest time possible.
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ihave3cats
I don't want to insult my own husband but he's not exactly a catch. Let's just say where most people are college smart, he's high school smart. Something to do with how he was born different. So the only woman he could run off with is his mother.
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I don't want to insult my own husband but he's not exactly a catch. Let's just say where most people are college smart, he's high school smart. Something to do with how he was born different. So the only woman he could run off with is his mother.
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ihave3cats
I don't want to insult my own husband but he's not exactly a catch. Let's just say where most people are college smart, he's high school smart. Something to do with how he was born different. So the only woman he could run off with is his mother.
That's too bad. My husband is smart, talented, very creative, a hard worker, faithful, loyal and loving to me. And, he's nice looking, too We have a good life together.
Why would you even consider marrying a man if you don't think he's a catch?
I feel sorry for your husband, because nobody deserves to marry a person who doesn't find them desirable.
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ihave3cats
I don't want to insult my own husband but he's not exactly a catch. Let's just say where most people are college smart, he's high school smart. Something to do with how he was born different. So the only woman he could run off with is his mother.
That's too bad. My husband is smart, talented, very creative, a hard worker, faithful, loyal and loving to me. And, he's nice looking, too We have a good life together.
Why would you even consider marrying a man if you don't think he's a catch?
I feel sorry for your husband, because nobody deserves to marry a person who doesn't find them desirable.
Mine too. I don't understand for the LIFE of me why a person would settle for someone they consider to be unintelligent.
"Born different"? Was he born a tard or something?
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ihave3cats
I don't want to insult my own husband but he's not exactly a catch. Let's just say where most people are college smart, he's high school smart. Something to do with how he was born different. So the only woman he could run off with is his mother.
That's too bad. My husband is smart, talented, very creative, a hard worker, faithful, loyal and loving to me. And, he's nice looking, too We have a good life together.
Why would you even consider marrying a man if you don't think he's a catch?
I feel sorry for your husband, because nobody deserves to marry a person who doesn't find them desirable.
Mine too. I don't understand for the LIFE of me why a person would settle for someone they consider to be unintelligent.
"Born different"? Was he born a tard or something?
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randomcfchick
My paternal grandfather was very into the "carry on the family name" thing. He'd openly talk about how my brother was the "last of the line" (which made my sister and me feel shitty, and I'm sure my three female cousins were annoyed, too) to carry on the name. Funny part: my sister and I both wound up keeping our names after marriage, and my brother is still not a parent at 45...from what I see, he's not interested in that lifestyle, either. But the dutiful cousins have dropped at least one kid each. I'm sure Granddad is spinning in his grave.
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Why would you even consider marrying a man if you don't think he's a catch?
I feel sorry for your husband, because nobody deserves to marry a person who doesn't find them desirable.
Mine too. I don't understand for the LIFE of me why a person would settle for someone they consider to be unintelligent.
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ihave3cats
I don't want to insult my own husband but he's not exactly a catch. Let's just say where most people are college smart, he's high school smart. Something to do with how he was born different. So the only woman he could run off with is his mother.
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